http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspxBy Chris Hampson, NBC News London Bureau Chief What is it about some news stories that capture a nation's attention and have the public clinging to its every twist and turn? Such a story has captivated the British media and its audience: the disappearanceen-USCommunityServer 2.0 (Build: 60608.1)http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195663Fri, 18 May 2007 15:08:12 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195663AnneLouiseIm a step mom to a 13 yr old boy and have been in his life since he was 3. I can't even imagine how this couple gets up and functions every day. My heart and obviously so many others, aches for them. Please Please - be safe little Madeline.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195667Fri, 18 May 2007 15:09:59 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195667Laura R., Moline, ILAs a mother, my heart is aching for the McCanns. They shall be in my prayers as will be Madeleine and the other children in their family. Those who do harm to innocent children are monsters and should be treated as such. To hell with the argument, "But their still human beings!" No one who intentionally does harm to a child is human. I pray she comes home safe and sound. Unharmed in any way, shape, or form. God bless the McCann family.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195686Fri, 18 May 2007 15:19:45 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195686Tina Dunne, Jacksonville, FLYou should NEVER leave such young children unattended. There are too many possibilities for a tragedy to occur. If an establishment does not wish to have children as guests, the parents should either get a babysitter or simply not go. End of story.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195687Fri, 18 May 2007 15:21:16 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195687Amy lee Boston MAthis is ridiculous... maybe they shouldnt have left their children alone in a hotel in another country! frankly they got what they deserved... and will get no piety from me... I really feel sorry for the little girl, for having moron parents.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195699Fri, 18 May 2007 15:26:23 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195699Charles Bertholf, Tampa, Fl.My thoughts and prayers are with the parents in the hopes that this comes to a safe conclusion--my thoughts and prayers also to all the other parents that may be going through this horrible nightmare as well. As a parent and grandparent I cannot think of anything more chilling.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195701Fri, 18 May 2007 15:26:49 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195701lk, mississippiI don't know the full circumstances that lead to the parents leaving their 3 yr old and two 2 yr olds alone in their hotel room. I realize they were not that far away but, as a parent of a 6 yr old and a 3 yr old, I would never leave my children alone in a hotel room while I went to eat, especially in a foriegn country. I also realize that the parents checked on the children several times but, as any parent with young children knows, alot can happen in only a couple of minutes when young children are involved. I've had moments when I only turned my back for a moment and my youngest child had somehow gotten into a difficult situation. Now I am not saying that these parents are bad parents or bad people. I believe they made an error in judgement that just so happened to have tragic consequences. I believe this is a situation that all parents of young children should take to heart and learn from. There are evil people in this world who prey on the defenseless and it is our job as parents to protect the innocent and helpless.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195703Fri, 18 May 2007 15:26:52 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195703Gene Hadden, Old Bridge New Jersey i am ETXREMELY SORRY for what has happened to this unfortunate family and my heart goes out to them. BUT, why in the world would you leave children unattended and ALONE at that age regardless of how close the eatery was?? i cannot for the life of me understand that especially nowadays.....http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195712Fri, 18 May 2007 15:28:01 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195712Nancy, West Chester, PALeave kids 4 & 2 year olds & go out dining in a strange environment? And you're both Doctors? I think in the US they would be arrested for child abuse? What were they thinking?http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195719Fri, 18 May 2007 15:31:58 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195719Kathleen WeetmanMay God bless the Mc Cann family and keep them strong.The whole world must look at Maddy's photo and when she is seen, alert the authorities.There is NO person anywhere in the world who should be with-holding information about her whereabouts.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195722Fri, 18 May 2007 15:32:34 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195722CLICK, GRAND JUNCTION, COLORADOI FEEL FOR THE FAMILY BUT ALL PEOPLE MUST KNOW IN THIS WORLD OUR CHILDREN ARE NOT SAFE OUT OF OUR SITE. IT IS A SAD THING BUT THAT IS THE WAY IT IS NOW DAYS. YOU CAN'T EVEN FEEL FREE TO LET YOUR CHILD PLAY IN YOUR OWN FRONT YARD WITHOUT SOMEONE WATCHING THEM.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195727Fri, 18 May 2007 15:33:58 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195727Lorraine, Oregon, U.S.A. Hey - this was not ever just some nice family holiday gone innocuously awry. Would this have occcured to you or me I FOR ONE WOULD BE DEMANDING THE POLICE HOLD ME AND ONLY ME ACCOUNTABLE AND RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN THREE-YEAR-OLD CHILD'S WRONGFUL "DISAPPEARANCE". Not wishing upon a star that this tragedy be only placed upon the feet of some anonymous villanous "stranger" somewhere...This was deliberate ongoing negligence by TWO adults. It is only the parents' word that they checked on their children in their unlocked hotel room every half hour - and what difference does that suspect "fact" matter anyway - seeing how this very young child IS missing and they have not a clue, after choosing to leave her alone, as to how or when or why she "disappeared". This is and was a totally preventable missing persons crime that would not have occurred but for the overt and deliberate indifference of two KNOWN persons. To all those who say "I did so also" I find that "parallel" reasoning totally reckless and uncaring in regard to this young child, Madeleine McCann who deserved better INFORMED care from her parents each minute of each day of her short life - not just when these parents felt like being "caring" parents. These parents are their own child's prime suspects. And now we all need to move on, recognizing just how WRONG, really wrong, not just a little "wrong" this was of the parents as to this young girls now emperiled state...http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195730Fri, 18 May 2007 15:34:42 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195730don fox woon. r. i. U.S.A.she is in my prayers.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195733Fri, 18 May 2007 15:35:44 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195733debra kelly, californiaMy heart aches for the family, it does...im so sorry. But I cannot understand why parents feel it's okay to leave 2 and 4 year olds alone? I don't care how long, or how far the parents were, you just don't leave the kids alone, not in the day and age, hire a sitter, pay a person to watch over them, have peace of mind, it would have taken very little to do so. This tradegy is not unfolding and the guilt has to be unbearable, it would be for me. Parents, I pray for the safe return on your daughter, but also for you. Be strong. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195734Fri, 18 May 2007 15:36:15 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195734Laura, Casa Grande, AZI feel sorry for the little girl and hope she will be found safely and returned home but shame, shame, shame on her parents for leaving a 4yr old w/ not just one but two 2yr olds!! Both Dr.'s in their late thirties... Do they not watch the news?! They are educated people who should have known better. Just goes to show common sense is not something that can be taught or paid for. I am a mother of two who are now 9 & 12 and I don't leave my children in bed in the middle of the night now. It horrifes me to think of doing it to a 4yr old and two 2ys olds. It was an open invitation for a predator to seek out all of those children. Let's pray God gives them a second chance to do right by their precious Madeleine.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195736Fri, 18 May 2007 15:37:00 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195736stan hutchenRarely do kidnappers work totally alone. Someone knows something that the authorities could use. That someone needs to step forward, not be afraide, and do the right thing by supplying needed information. DO IT NOW!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195743Fri, 18 May 2007 15:39:13 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195743Kathy Hartford, CTMy thoughts and prayers go out to this family. Unfortunatly they have found out that the world has changed and not for the better. Our children are at risk even in their own beds from preditors. In giving these preditors their supposed rights they are stealing our children's childhoods. No longer can they just get on a bike and ride the neighborhood or go exploring. No longer can parents feel free to let them play in their own backyard without being watched constantly. Once a child preditor always a preditor. They should be removed from society permanently. Their minds are sick and tainted. Making their bodies incapable of evil does not remove the evil from their thoughts and deeds. Please find this little girl, but as important, find who took her and and punish them by removing them from society permanently.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195746Fri, 18 May 2007 15:39:32 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195746Christie Stanford-Carter, Grand Saline, TexasMrs. Carter's fourth grade class in Grand Saline, Texas, is praying for your family. We hope you find Madeline. We will all keep you in our hearts and prayers. God Bless and much love, Mrs. Carter's 4th grade class. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195750Fri, 18 May 2007 15:40:14 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195750Worried Mom, Greenville, SCPlease, leaving 3 children that young alone. Have their parents lost their minds? I realize that the customs in Europe are different than in the U.S., but in this sick era that we live in - you can't leave a child alone for a moment. As much heartache as I feel for their parents - what did they expect?http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195751Fri, 18 May 2007 15:40:17 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195751Sarah, VAI feel for these people, I really do. But I have a hard time saying that their daughter's disappearence is punishment enough. I have two children. I cannot and will not leave them alone, not even for a couple of minutes to run to the store. There are just too many horror stories. In this day and age, you can't be too careful, on the road, on vacation, on the internet, in your own home. It is my responsibility to care for my children and that includes watching over them. Yes, I would love to trust the world, but realistically, I know that is just not possible. I am also realist enough to know that just because I hire a sitter or I'm just in the other room at night, doesn't preclude my children from being abducted. I, however, take heart in the fact that I will not have to feel the guilt these parents are feeling. "What if..."http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195765Fri, 18 May 2007 15:43:57 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195765Mary, Claverack, New Yorkshe is in my prayers---and her parents are in my prayers --- i do not pass judgment--I too am a parent of two teenage boys--they do not come with manuals and every day is a learning experience--i'm hoping for a happy ending...http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195766Fri, 18 May 2007 15:43:57 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195766Chris, Virginia Beach, VATo all the people attacking the parents of Madeline- First off, right now the parents need support, not to be attacked. I am sure a moment does not go by without them blaming themselves. They did nothing wrong. They left there children sleeping within shouting distance of themselves. How many times have you, as a parent, left your child sleeping in there bedroom while you went in another room to do something else. It could just as easily be you missing your child as it could be them.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195767Fri, 18 May 2007 15:43:59 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195767D Mah, Hempstead, New YorkMy prayers and thoughts to the parents of Madeleine. However, to clear my chest... to those of you hypocrates that are trying one way or the other to blame the McCanns for leaving their babies unattended, all I can say is what a fool you are? We all as parents have left our kids unattended, we were just fortunate not to have such plight as the McCanns. We as a society so concentrate on the evil ones and how we can pluck them out of our individual communities worldwide. Dear God please bring baby Madeleine save to her parents, who I believe love her so dearly.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195776Fri, 18 May 2007 15:46:59 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195776A. Simmons, Lexington, KYThe grief and heart break of this story and others before it and, sadly, others that will follow it, is made so intense because our sweet, small, trusting, and innocent children have no voice and no choice when facing an intent adult. It makes us shrink back in horror to know there are people our age and people we think are just like us, who can do these unspeakable things to our children. The fear of never finding our precious little ones, never catching the predators, and, in the case of some, catching the predators which can turn US into something we thought we could never be, vengeful. Lives are changed forever. My broken heart is with this family and I hold them up in prayer for strength, recovery, and peace of mind.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195779Fri, 18 May 2007 15:47:38 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195779Renee, Kingsland, GAMy heart goes out to this family. I am a single mother of three. Although I do not leave my children home alone, the child predators out there are certainly the evil villains and not the parents.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195781Fri, 18 May 2007 15:47:59 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195781Micae NY NYYes, these parents were wrong to leave their children unattended. With all that can go wrong and all the crazy people out in the world it was an error in judgement. Nothing others can say to condemn their actions can compare to the guilt and remorse they must be going thru now. But they did not deserve this, neither did their little girl. They were not asking for this. How dare anyone say something like that. No one is perfect. Nothing justifies what they did but they, along with their child, are paying a high price for their mistake. Enough said. I only hope that they find their little girl and that other families, learn from this tragedy. It is never ok to leave your child alone. My prayers are with them.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195782Fri, 18 May 2007 15:48:33 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195782AnnMy prayers are with you and for the safe return of your daughter. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195784Fri, 18 May 2007 15:49:15 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195784Bernard . Long Beach, CAWhere is "inspector Clouseau" when We need Him badly ? , so He can solve this "kidnapping" of an innocent little girl & get Her back alive & well.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195785Fri, 18 May 2007 15:49:21 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195785Carrie, Saratoga Springs, NYI cannot fathom the amount of grief these parents are suffering. No matter what or how this happened, there is still that deep agony of not knowing where your child is each and every hour of their life. I pray for a favorable outcome....Miracles do happen.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195857Fri, 18 May 2007 16:05:01 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195857a concerned motherA prayer for Madeleine and for so many other children who are lost - May they be safe and be returned to their families immediately. No matter what age a child is - a child will always be a child and not have the maturity or sensibility of an adult. And hence it is imperative - not to leave them alone -not in a foreign country or in your own.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195858Fri, 18 May 2007 16:05:02 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195858JB - Lowell, ARThis is not the time to inflict further pain and judgment on this desperate family. They need our prayers and the support of those around them to continue this investigation. As this story unfolds, there will be plenty of time for all of us to be reminded of the valuable lessons put before us in this tragedy. We've all made errors in raising our precious children, my heart breaks for them.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195859Fri, 18 May 2007 16:05:07 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195859Cindy, West Palm Beach FLI feel so sorry for this family but when i heard the story, but when i heard that the parents were not even there i wanted to sream! I am the parent of 5 yaear old twins and would never have left them alone,it only takes a second for everything to go wrong, they would have been arrested them selves here for neglect and they would deserve it. I don't want to be mean but come on they left their children to go have drinks with friends...where were their friends children!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195860Fri, 18 May 2007 16:05:11 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195860Linda Duggan, Avon.MaMay God grant them their childs safe return! The point isn"t whether they should have left them alone, we all make our decisions at a moment in time, and there is no going back to undo them when they lead to an unforseeable event.What needs to be done now is to locate the child and support the parents through this nightmare. I will continue to pray for the whole family,http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195861Fri, 18 May 2007 16:05:49 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195861Gabrielle, Dallas, TexasPlease! Americans are hysterical about their children. They drive their children to school when they could take the bus. They spend every weekend carting them around to sports events so that they don't have to play outside in their own neighborhoods; they drag them to quiet restaurants and movies where other adults, who are trying to get away from it all, have to listen to them scream. These parents did NOTHING wrong. They were two responsible people who were at the wrong place at the wrong time. That's not a crime.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195863Fri, 18 May 2007 16:06:04 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195863Stephanie A. Brown, Nashville, TennesseeI don’t know the McCann’s, but I will wager to say that they are no more morons than any of the rest of us. There are no perfect parents—not one single set on this whole earth. There is not one set who hasn’t unintentionally put their child in danger at one time or another. It is easy for us to sit and point our fingers at someone else, when, truth be told, we are all just relieved that it takes the attention away from all the things we have done wrong. It makes us thankful that our consequences were none, or at least less severe than what happened in this situation. That family will punish themselves with more guilt than most of us can ever imagine, so there is no point in trying to inflict more pain on them. We should take this opportunity to look at our own children, be appreciative, gracious, and loving while we have them. Because there is nothing that guarantees that they will always be in our company.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195864Fri, 18 May 2007 16:06:22 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195864Gail McAlister, Lexington, KentuckyI wonder if this columnist or the parents of this little girl would have left a suitcase with a million dollars in it unattended in a hotel room and go back occasionally to check on it. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195865Fri, 18 May 2007 16:06:41 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195865Susan, OhioTo all of you who are so sure you are such good parents that something like this could never happen to you, I pray that you are right. But has it never occurred to you that a child could wake up while you are sleeping, wander outside and be kidnapped or lost? Or fall down the stairs and die of a head injury? Or any one of countless other tragedies we never think of until they happen? So do you take turns staying awake to watch your children every minute of every day until they are grown? No parent can honestly say they have never allowed their child to be in danger of being lost or taken, as soon as you walk out the door with them they are in danger unless they're somehow attached to you! These parents were watching their children the same way as you or I would have been if we went next door or across the street to chat with a neighbor outside while our children were asleep. Are you saying that your children have never been out of your sight even while they are sleeping? How about when you are sleeping? All of us who care about our children do our best to keep them safe, and there is no difference between these parents and the rest of us except that an unspeakable tragedy has stricken them, and it could have happened to any one of us at any time. It's only by God's grace that your children and mine are safe -- I think thankfulness and compassion are much more appropriate here than blame and guilt. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195866Fri, 18 May 2007 16:06:49 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195866caty young, bells, tnI am praying for the McCann family. No one has the right to judge them until they've been in their shoes!. I am guilty, as of many parents of letting my kids take naps and me going out into the yard, checking on the kids every 30 minutes. Please, give these people a break! They need your support, not your should haves and could haves. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195868Fri, 18 May 2007 16:07:09 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195868Cathy, Birmingham, EnglandAs a British mother of four children my heart goes out to Madeleine McCann but i, like so many other people here in Britain are at a total loss as to why two intelligent people left their children alone. I don't quite understand the reaction that is being broadcast by our media but i can assure the rest of the world that we are not all as irresponsible. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195915Fri, 18 May 2007 16:14:35 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195915Manissa/ CASaying that the parents got what they deserved is cruel and just shows ignorance. They have to worry about the safety of their daughter, and should have to worry about what all of us have to say. All of these comments posted on this page are of no use to the parents of Madeleine...and are doing nothing to help her return her return.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195916Fri, 18 May 2007 16:14:48 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195916DC, Washington DCToo all you insensitive internet morons, I think we all already agree, and that the parent already know they made a terrible mistake. Instead of rubbing salt into their already terribly wounded and aching hearts, let us all pray for and focus our positive energies on Madeleines safe return. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195918Fri, 18 May 2007 16:14:56 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195918Robert Joa, Boston, MA This is a horrible situation and very difficult to take in. I feel horrible for the parents and, specially, for Madeleine. Both parents definitely should not have let their kids all alone, I agreed completely. But what we, as a society, fail to recognize is how the individual(s)are sick enough to go into some hotel room (or any place for that matter) and steal a child? This act is even worse than a parent leaving their child alone for a few minutes. The fault is not on the parents but on the monster and pathetic person that took this child. Let's not kick the parents while they are down, please recognize what the tragedy is and focus on who is to blame here... the looser who took her. We cannot turn back the clock and I am SURE that the parents have learned from a very costly mistake. We are not ALL angels and have committed very stupid mistakes in our lives (I being one of them). Even people with genius IQ have made stupid mistakes. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195922Fri, 18 May 2007 16:16:58 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195922SLS, New JerseyI pray for Madeline's safe return...I also pray for temporary incarceration of her parents for being so irresponsible and reckless. Children are a gift to be cherished and cared for constantly, not a disposable toy that you pay attention to when it suits you and ignore when you think there's something better to do. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195924Fri, 18 May 2007 16:17:12 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195924Chantel D., Phoenix, AZWhile I completely agree that it was a very bad decision to leave three small children alone, whatever the circumstances may have been, it in no way justifies taking a small child. I think that instead of villifying the poor parents, we should concentrate on finding and punishing the obviously sick person who would kidnap a small child. While the parents may be guilty of making a bad decision, whoever has the girl obviously has no social or moral conciense whatsoever and needs to be found ASAP before this happens to another family! The whole world is praying for you Madeline, and for you family. Come home safe!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195925Fri, 18 May 2007 16:17:29 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195925Stan R., Hillsborough, NJI feel sorry for the little girl, not the parents. As a parent of an almost 5 year old and 3 year old I couldn't imagine ever leaving them alone or unattended. The parents should've had a little more common sense. I hope this story has a happy ending. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195926Fri, 18 May 2007 16:17:50 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195926PL PitcockShame,shame, shame on those of you who are quick to judge Madeleine's parents, NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES surrounding the disappearance of this child. You were not there, you do not know her mother and father, you do not KNOW THEIR PAIN. Stop the judging of these parents, stop the hurtful words and start praying for Madeleine's safe return. PS. God loves her parents the same as he loves you.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195930Fri, 18 May 2007 16:18:23 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195930Mara, OregonIt's terrible that a little 4-year-old girl has to be the one who pays for the blatant stupidity of her parents. Leaving children that young alone for 10 minutes is criminal, let alone for 30 minutes at a time, in an unlocked hotel room, in a foreign country, while the parents are off enjoying themselves. The parents deserve all the misery they're getting. It's just tragic that an innocent little girl has to suffer as well.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195932Fri, 18 May 2007 16:18:27 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195932dena meridian, msmy heart goes out to the parents, but on the other hand....what were you thinking... i have a 6 year old and he doent even go outside in my front yard without me ..open your eyes and read in the papers child abductions everyday what is wrong with you people.. i hope your child returns safely and if they dont you all need to go to jail.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195933Fri, 18 May 2007 16:18:29 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195933FroggyQueenI think since they were on vacation the parents became more relaxed and was too comfortable with their surroundings. That is just the opportunity that these predators wait for. I agree with Stan Hutchen who says that kidnappers usually don't work alone. These parents clearly love their children but have a very poor lapse in judgement. I pray that their daughter will return safely and we are all praying for her!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195953Fri, 18 May 2007 16:21:30 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195953AnnAs a mother of a four-year-old little girl and two older children, my heart goes out to this family. Although I would never leave my children alone to go out to dinner, while on vacation or otherwise, I can only imagine the agony they are going through. I know that some people are angry at the parents for being so foolish, but please try to have compassion. Their suffering is punishment enough. Even good parents make mistakes. If someone took this little girl, it is HE who is truly evil and deserving of your condemnation. Please pray, as I do, for little Madeleine AND her parents.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195954Fri, 18 May 2007 16:21:30 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195954Donald C, Ottawa, CanadaIt sickens me everytime I hear or read of these cases. It is a real shame that children have such morons for parents. I do not even leave my 13 year old alone with my 3 year old. Wake up people - this kind of action is unacceptable and the parents should be charged with neglect. The only one I feel sorry for is the little girl. Hopefully in the end she turns up ok, merely a victim of kidnapping and not something worse. I am sure for $20 pounds they could have hired a babysitter - not much to keep your children save. No sitter available? Then stay with the kids. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195955Fri, 18 May 2007 16:21:42 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195955Mary P, Bainbridge, WaI shudder to ever consider myself in the position of the McCann's, the fear of not knowing where your child may be and if they are safe. I see no purpose in blaming the parents at this time - they have to agonize every moment their decision to leave their children while they dined. They do not need the added weight of other's judgements, just the prayers and whatever help anyone can give them to bring this little girl back to her family.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195956Fri, 18 May 2007 16:21:53 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195956Jocelle, Studio City, CAThese parents should have been arrested for child negligence. How could you leave such young children alone, especially in a foreign environment? As a mother of three, I wouldn’t even leave my eldest who is 10 alone at home. Unfortunately, I hear of these stories all the time in America, but usually they come from low class, uneducated parents. As doctors, you would think they would have more common sense. I hope they find that beautiful little girl, and perhaps this is a strong lesson learned for the McCann’s and ALL PARENTS that ponder the thought of leaving their children alone. It wouldn’t surprise me if the McCann’s hadn’t done this before. This was a preventable mishap. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195957Fri, 18 May 2007 16:22:05 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195957Balwant DixitI feel really sorry that this has happened to this 4 yr. old girl. Irresponsible behavior of her parents is resonsible for this tragedy. Notonly they left this 4 yr. old girl unattended but also thier 2 yr. old twins unattended. I hope theyfind the 4 yr. old daughter. But the parents shoud be held responsible for their neglect and should be punished. They are doctos so thay could have afforded a baysitter. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195959Fri, 18 May 2007 16:22:12 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195959Scott, New Berlin, ILA truly selfish decision on the part of 2 parents has resulted in the disappearance of their child. How disappointing that parents need to leave their children to go to dinner at a tapas bar, do not take your children if you can not afford to spend time with them and take care of them (specifically protect them) at all times. My children are 4 and 3 and I would not consider such a reckless and selfish decision because I respect the fact that accidents happen and more importantly...evil does exist in every dark corner of the world. As a parent my job is to eliminate the evil. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195961Fri, 18 May 2007 16:23:03 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195961Minneapolis, MNThese parents have no excuse for leaving the kids alone. If you read the full article on BBC, the hotel they were staying at even provides babysitting and other childcare options but they chose not use them.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195963Fri, 18 May 2007 16:23:18 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195963kgs, buffalo n.y.I do have a 9 and 8 years old girls, and a 3 years old boy and I never let them alone not even for a second, I even sleep on the couch next to their bedrooms, what were this people thinking, by leaving this toddlers alone while they have fun. don't they believe on a 'nanny' . I really hope she is safe but iwould love to see Child Protective Services after this couple for it it's clear for endengerment of a child. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195964Fri, 18 May 2007 16:23:19 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195964MOMMYME IT IS MY OPINION THAT CHILDREN AS YOUNG AS 4 SHOULD NOT BE LEFT ALONE NOT EVEN FOR A FEW MINUTES NON THE LESS O GO FOR DINNER ..... I HOPE LITTLE MADELEINE IS FOUND SAFE AND WILL BE RETURND TO HER FAMILY .... AND I ALSO HOPE FOR THE SAKE OF THE 2 OTHER CHILDREN MOM AND DAD WILL THINK BEFORE LEAVING THEM ALONE ... COM HOM SAKE LITTLE ONE http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195966Fri, 18 May 2007 16:23:31 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195966Bobster, Rockport TxThese kind of stories make me sick, and sad. Maybe they should not have left the kids alone for a little bit of time. But if a pervert is responsible for this he or she needs to be down like a rabid dog. These stories are so common now adays. We as a society need to protect our kids more, and worry less about the perverts. It just so heart breaking. I pray they find her safe and sound. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195967Fri, 18 May 2007 16:23:36 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195967MELANIE, COLUMBUS, OHWHAT HAS HAPPENED TO COMMON SENSE? IS IT A THING OF THE PAST? I CAN'T IMAGINE WHY 2 WELL EDUCATED PEOPLE WOULD LEAVE THEIR BABIES UNATTENDED! I FEEL BADLEY FOR LITTLE MADDIE NOT BEING PROTECTED BY HER PARENTS. I'M PRAYING FOR HER...http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195974Fri, 18 May 2007 16:25:09 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195974Tonya, Lafayette,LAIf people haven't gotten it, they will get now or never will. IN TODAYS WORLD, PARENTS, NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE, ECONOMIC BACKGROUND, OR WHERE YOU ARE, YOU CANNOT LEAVE YOUR CHILDREN UNATTENDED. It is INSANE in my mind to leave children behind while parents wine and dine. IT IS A HARD LESSON TO BE LEARNED THIS WAY. I feel bad for the child. God only knows who she is with or where she is.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195976Fri, 18 May 2007 16:25:27 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195976Jeri, Bronx New YorkPlease Please let this be a lesson learned, Never ever leave your kids unattended it takes only seconds to snatch a child, My heart does go out to you and others that have had their child kidnapped, i hope that Madeleine is returned home safe and sound, My prayers are with youhttp://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195978Fri, 18 May 2007 16:25:40 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195978Jimmy Etherington ,Newport Beach CaliforniaI would be utterly broken down with despair...I pray for her safe return....As do millions of parents across the globe...I thinkm it is important to support Local or National Orginizations that raise awareness , and help promote the safe return of Missing Children..NCMEC.National Center for Missing and Exploited Children......http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195979Fri, 18 May 2007 16:25:49 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195979Barbara Cavicchio,Spartanburg,S,C.My prayers are with both parents for that precious childs safe return. Life is too short to be placing blame for something as parents they will never let happen again-let's just move on and unite in wordly prayers, together, with God's blessings that child can be back with her loving parents.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195981Fri, 18 May 2007 16:25:58 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195981Kathy, MinnesotaIsn't it wonderful that everyone can pass judgment on this family? It is so refreshing to know that no one has made a mistake in life that has turned into a major catastrophe! How about showing compassion for EVERYONE involved regardless of the circumstances. It was just as possible if someone had been watching the kids for this to have happened. THIS is what is wrong with the world. The fact that everyone has such an enlightened opinion about everything, instead of respecting EVERYONE and looking out for each other. It makes me sick and by the way, I can say what I want, I'm a cancer survivor and mother of 3, one of which is autistic and then some and since every idiot with a computer thinks they know everything, I figure a little bit of common sense might not hurt!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195983Fri, 18 May 2007 16:26:08 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195983Steve, IdahoWhoa, hold on here a minute!! Get down off your damn soap boxes and have some compassion. If those of you that are railing on the parents about leaving the children alone, were in the same posistion, most of you would be doing the ole Whoa Is me routine and weeping and wailing, wanting all the empathy and compassion that would help to bring the child back. Yes, they probably should not have left the children, Yes they are racked with guilt, But I think you miss the picture here. Come on give up a prayer for little Madeline, and pray that you your self will never have to be judged as harshly as you are judging her parents.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195987Fri, 18 May 2007 16:27:11 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195987jet, pawhile i pray for this child's safe return, i cannot fathom how parents could walk away from such small children in the first place. i have not stayed at a hotel recently and never overseas, however the hotels i have been to all offered a babysitting service at a nominal charge. some offered it as a part of the "family - fun package" since the hotel was in a family-friendly location. to go off, even just a short distance, and leave tiny children alone, unattended, and unprotected is, to my mind, criminal. here in the states, these parents, their worry and grief not withstanding, would be charged with child neglect at the very least. as i said, i pray for this little one's return safely, soundly; but i find it hard to generate sympathy for neglectful parents. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195988Fri, 18 May 2007 16:27:20 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195988Carl Machado, Fall River, MA USALets us not spend a single moment throwing rocks ... The McCann's need all of our help and prayers and that is all the world should do.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195993Fri, 18 May 2007 16:30:16 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195993Kate, New York, NYI agree with Amy Lee in Boston. It is COMPLETELY the parents' fault for leaving those children unattended. God forbid if something happens to this little girl, they should face some kind of criminal charges. I don't feel sorry for them, I feel sorry for Madeline. They should rot in hell.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195995Fri, 18 May 2007 16:30:25 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195995Andi, Southern CaliforniaIt seems to me that many people are judging these parents based on what we have experienced here in the US. Perhaps things are different in Europe, and these situations are not as common. I understand the frustration that people feel about these parents leaving their children alone, but if their society is more like ours thirty years ago than ours now, we should remember that we also left our children unattended in their rooms, or our yards, where we would fear to do so now. Regardless of any judgement placed on the parents, I sincerely hope that the child makes it through this situation alive, and with as little emotional trauma as is possible. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195997Fri, 18 May 2007 16:30:57 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195997Ralph Morse Newport News, VirginiaMy wife and i work hectic schedules are under stress as the good doctors are/were. When our children were small and we were in our 30s as they are, we stayed home with our children to protect them from just such a thing happening. What the good doctors did is against the law for good reason. Leaving infant children alone and unattended is a depraved act of indifference and should be punished to the full extent of the law. Hope the people of the world realize the only victim here is the one who is missing, the parents are criminals.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195998Fri, 18 May 2007 16:30:58 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195998Shay Wesley, Amarillo, TexasI have something to say to Amy lee Boston MA who wrote in. Have you no heart? Why would you post something so heartless about someone? For you to state that this is what they deserve infuriates me and it makes you a monster. To the family of this little girl, I pray that you may have stregnth & courage through this ordeal. I pray that there is a positive outcome and that she is returned safely home. My prayers are with you.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#195999Fri, 18 May 2007 16:31:05 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:195999Sharon Williams, Castries, St. Lucia, West IndiesI feel so sorry for the entire situation. That poor little girl. We can only pray that she is alive and well, For her parents also, this is a living nightmare that all parents fear. I live in the Caribbean and while we don't have such things really going on we are still informed via the internet, cable tv. etc. and I tell you that parents here would not leave such young children unattaneded. That was courting danger.But it is really crying over spilt milk berating the parents now. It was a colossal error of judgement and their guilt must be debilitating. We can only pray now for Madelaine's safe return and for strength for her parents and family.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196003Fri, 18 May 2007 16:31:28 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196003dan,manns harbor,ncthis kind of tragedy can only be compounded by others statements of how this couple should be perfct parents like themselves the fact of the matter is no matter how much we try to be perfect we are not and mistakes can be made out of even the strongest of love for our children as i am sure this is the case but if the finger of blame should be pointed it should be at the break down of hotel security that obviousley happened at this hotel people put their safety in the hands of the hotel and it is up to the hotel to insure their guest safetyhttp://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196006Fri, 18 May 2007 16:32:05 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196006Maryann, St Louis MOBeing the mother of 4- my heart bleeds for these parents. Did they make a mistake leaving the children asleep while they had dinner???? I don't know- it's not for me to judge them as I have made numerous mistakes myself over the years because there is not a parent out there that is perfect. For all commenting on this board that they have no pity for these parents- I pray that when your children are no longer under your perfect parental care- that some tragedy does not befall them because we can not ALWAYS protect our children- alot of prayer and God's protection go along with "common sense". This family will continue to be in my prayers for Madeline's safe return WITHOUT judgement upon the parents.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196007Fri, 18 May 2007 16:32:14 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196007Karen, Yuma, AzAmy from Boston says they got what they deserve for leaving their children alone. Please tell me how can you say such a cruel thing, if the child is molested or murdered is that what they deserve. Before you write something thing about what you are saying. You are the moron not them. Yes I agree they made bad judgement in leaving them alone but no family no matter what deserves this.....http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196008Fri, 18 May 2007 16:32:17 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196008Vivian BrunbergThe simple fact that the parents were in and out of the hotel room every 30 min. was a sure tip-off to anyone that there were children unattended in the room! Why else would parents go in and out every 30 min. or so if not to check on their unattended children in the room, certainly not to check on a sitter, or anything else left behind a "LOCKED" door? Obviously someone (someone interested in little children) saw them doing this and realized an opportunity to seize a child! Although my heart aches for the parents and especially for the child, I can't help thinking how wrong these parents were in what they did, leaving 3 little children alone in a hotel room, and then tipping off any criminal to the fact that something of value was left in that room that needed to be checked on every 30 min. or so. My prayers are with everyone involved, but I hope everyone learns a lesson from this - NEVER LEAVE CHILDREN ALONE, UNATTENDED!!!! even if you think your doing the right thing by checking on them - criminals watch for this sort of behavior and then act upon it!! LESSON LEARNED I hope!!! http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196009Fri, 18 May 2007 16:32:18 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196009Susan, Salt Lake CityI had no idea there were so many perfect parents around. The more self-righteous you are the more I'm convinced that you've done something just like this and you were so lucky that nothing hasppened that you want to spew your venom on every message board you can find. Do I advocate leaving children alone? No. They made a mistake. How many of you have left the child in the car "for just a second?" How many of you run out to the mailbox or stand in the backyard talking to the neighbor while the little one is napping? Think a house fire couldn't start in those ten seconds? Where do you draw the line? Unless you are with your child 24/7 - and that means ALL THE TIME then shut up and do something constructive with your time. You all sicken me.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196010Fri, 18 May 2007 16:32:27 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196010Caroline, El PasoI know it is hard for Americans to accept that Europians would leave young sleeping children in the hotel roo, but I lived for years in Europe and can tell you there is a community feeling of others watching out for your children. I do not mean one can be irresponsible, but I feel those parents took every reasonable precaution and probably checked on the children to make sure they were Ok and NEVER thought one could go missing.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196012Fri, 18 May 2007 16:33:11 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196012KATHLEEN RODRIGUEZ WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDAI TOTALLY HOLD THE PARENTS RESPONSIBLE I WOULD NEVER LEAVE A SMALL CHILD ALONE ESPECIALLY IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY WHAT WERE THEY THINKING? MY CHILDREN ARE MY WORLD I WOULDNT WANT TO BE WITHOUT THEM .IF THEY COULDNT BE WITH THEM AT ALL TIMES THEY SHOULDNT HAVE BROUGHT THEM ALONG I PRAY FOR THIS CHILD!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196013Fri, 18 May 2007 16:33:22 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196013outer banks of north carolinaI am sure they are loving, dotoing parents, but unforunately you can't be too careful. Children wake up, they get out of bed,they explore. What if there were a fire??? There are too many what if's, you don't leave children as young as this along, even if you are checking on them. This is inexcusable and a very expensive lesson to learn on.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196014Fri, 18 May 2007 16:33:25 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196014Debi DrainaWhy do the children of the world always suffer for the adult actions. The parents are Doctors they should have never left there children alone. Only god can judge them and I am sure that some day they will have to face up to what they did. My prayers are with the parents and the children. How hard it must be to have to live with oneself and to feel responsible for what has happened to your own child.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196015Fri, 18 May 2007 16:33:29 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196015Lisa, Charlotte, MichiganI hope this little girl will be found safe,and soon...I am reluctant to say returned to her parents. For 2 doctors in their 30s, they were incredibly stupid to leave these kids unattended. What, they couldn't afford a sitter, for pete's sake?! Give me a break. Then there is the wonder, could one of them have done something to her while they supposedly went to check on the kids? I don't know them so can't say,but hope someone has asked that. Why would someone take just her, not the twins too, you know? The kids need to be in protective custody until the parents get their shit together and decide to properly parent them...and that would include admitting this was their own negligence that led to her going missing. I would also wonder what sort of doctors they are...and if they should continue in that field or not. But bottom line is, please help find this child and assure her safety!!! http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196016Fri, 18 May 2007 16:33:30 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196016Julie Leicestershire EnglandYou Americans all sound so perfect!!!!!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196017Fri, 18 May 2007 16:33:33 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196017D Evans, USAWhat difference does it really make at this point make if the parents made a mistake or not. A CHILD IS MISSING!!! A PRECIOUS CHILD HAS BEEN TAKEN FROM HER PARENTS AND ALL THESE @*%&##(*@ CARE TO POST IS JUDGEMENTAL, ACUSATORY COMMENTS. I hope I speak for the majority of the readers when I say that our thoughts and prayers are with the family and Madeleine. No mistakes were made and the only blame being cast should be toward the sick, sleeze that committed this horrendous act.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196020Fri, 18 May 2007 16:34:00 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196020Mother of 7/grandmother of 18,Strasburg,CoGEEZ! How heartbreakingly sad.My heart goes out to the children here... the parents well, chalk it up to ignorance and carelessness. Perhaps they are illiterate and don't read the newspapers or they are blind and deaf and don't watch the news...I will pray for the childrens safety and for the parents to become educated about how to care for young children.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196023Fri, 18 May 2007 16:34:28 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196023Shelley, Owensboro KyHow can the four year old be missing and not the two year old twins? Something is very fishy to me. The parents should be held accountable for leaving children alone!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196026Fri, 18 May 2007 16:34:42 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196026Maria DeLeon Dallas, Texas 75227I am a mother and a grandmother of 5 grand children, my heart and tears goes out to the parents, but in these times and days you DO NOT EVER leave a child alone at any time or day, this world is not safe, it is very sad to say. I will light a candle for little Madeleine and say a prayer for her return. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196027Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:00 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196027Melanie, Wenatchee, WAMy prayers are with the McCann family and little Madeline. It is always very disappointing to me that strangers would take the time to post ignorant and heartless judgements toward a family that is suffering an unthinkable horror. What's the point except to show the world just how hateful and hurtful you can be? Despite any of the circumstances, these parents did not cause this crime. Why not support them instead of throwing your judgements and criticism around? http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196028Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:01 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196028Wenona Kleser, Spokane, WAThe parents leaving the children in the hotel room, unlocked, was not the smartest thing to do. Who, though, has not left a sleeping child for a couple of minutes to clean up the house, rake some leaves or even speak with a neighbor in the yard? Is it the distance that makes the difference? People have houses/rooms broken into all the time. The truth is that you cannot hover over your children 24/7. Although I don't agree that they should have been so far away in a strange country and left the door unlocked, the truth is that if someone wanted that dear little girl bad enough they would have stopped at nothing to find any opportunity to take her. I hope with all my heart they find her safe and unharmed.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196029Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:05 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196029Dena, Colorado Springs, ColoradoThank you, thank you for questioning the actions of the parents in this case. I was wondering, while hearing all news accounts, if anyone even CARED that the parents' actions were negligent. I have twin four-year-olds and no way in this world would I leave them alone, even in my own home, even if asleep. They can open doors and get into any kind of a mess. I'm sure these parents are feeling guilt. It is sad that one moment of neglect may have cost them their child. My question is: How many other times were these precious children left alone?http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196030Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:10 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196030Susan Ritzer, Okoboji, IowaI was raised an" Air Force Brat ",we lived on the Air Base,I remember my parents leaving me alone after putting me in bed for the night. I was 8 years old. They would come home and check up on me,I would wake up from time to time,I remember feeling very alone. I am now 51 years old, and I remember this.It was a safer time back then , but I never Left my children alone when they were young. With the times the way they are,I do not understand why the parents were so naive,but the hell they are going thru has to be a slow death. I just hope evey parent learns from this. NEVER,NEVER, leave your babies alone!!!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196032Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:29 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196032Tina Mallard IAThe parents leaving these children unattended anywhere is ludicrous!!!I pray she is found safe. The parents should be charged with child abuse.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196033Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:29 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196033Debbie, Rancho Cucamonga, CaliforniaI have a 7-year-old boy and I would NEVER EVEN CONSIDER leaving him alone in a hotel room by himself for any amount of time. I cannot fathom what the parents are going through at this point but being a good parent means making good choices for your children. Some poor choices have very bad consequences for both the child and the parents. This poor missing child is, unfortunately, a consequence made from a poor choice.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196034Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:30 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196034Rakiya, Lagos, Nigeria.Maybe I am one of those paranoid moms, but I guess living in the States at some point in my life will do that to a backwoods girl like me. I have two children, 13 and 14 years old and even at their ages I would never leave them alone in the house. Infact, they are not allowed to cross the road on their own. The point is, I can't imagine how the McCanns left their children unattended and at such an ungodly hour to boot! I really feel for them and constantly pray for the safe return of their daughter. This is a very hard way to learn that the world is awash with evil people. To think that not one person has reported a sighting-the girl couldn't just have disappeared into thin air! http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196035Fri, 18 May 2007 16:35:46 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196035Lynn, Coon Rapids, Mn. For those of you passing judgement, I'm so happy you are perfect. I have made many mistakes as a parent, fortunately for me, they have not had these horrible consequences. They made a terrible mistake, but it's done, and time for support rather than criticism. Please use your energy for something positive.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196037Fri, 18 May 2007 16:36:05 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196037donna, camano island, waGod Bless the children. God protect Madeline and bring her home safe and unharmed. God forgive her parents for their moment of carelessness and bring their daughter back to them right away. My prayers are constant for this family.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196038Fri, 18 May 2007 16:36:12 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196038Joey NY NY.So what if they were average Joe Taxpayers rather than "elite" doctors? Children end up missing on a regular basis, all over the world, but I guess since dumb and dumber are doctors, it's a worldwide horror story. All that time and money invested in an education, but you're too stupid to stay in for the night with your CHILDREN. Must be that wine and shrimp and avacado "dinner" party was more important than the safety of their own offspring. Apparently this isn't the first time these morons have done this because it's a vacation spot for the hob nob retards of the UK. Laaaaaah de dah, and now you're in tears because you can't put your uppity crap aside and be a PARENT. Get a life r-tards, you neglect your kids, they end up missing, can't learn that one with your nose in the air at med school. Morons.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196039Fri, 18 May 2007 16:36:17 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196039Samatha, Portland, ORI too hold the parents at fault. Maybe in the US we are more inclined to feel parents are responsible for their lack of responsible parenting. I would say they were arrogant. They certainly had the money to hire a babysitter. They are lucky the twins were not also taken. It is never okay to drop your guard in today's world.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196041Fri, 18 May 2007 16:36:35 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196041Sexychocolate7We just returned from Jamaica with our girls 2 and 9. We stayed at an all inclusive resort with several restaurants, a kids camp, babysitting service etc. Even though each restaurant was near our suite - we not ONCE, not ONCE, LEFT them out of our site. There were others however, who left their kids with the camp, or sitters and left the compound. God forbid a sunami or other disaster occur and they kids were left with "workers" in a strange country. I cringe! I don't know what culture has to do with common sense. I feel for them, but they messed this one up. I am horrified to think that their selfishness in wanting to spend time with each other may have cost them the life of their baby! If it was so important to have time alone, they should have at least hired someone from the resort (STILL NOT AN OPTION I WOULD TAKE) to babysit their kids. Still better, bring they should have brought their sitter/nanny/babysitter on vacation with them. We are Black Americans (decendants of slaves). Although there are many negative things said about us, we would never, ever, put selfishness before the safety and sake of our children.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196044Fri, 18 May 2007 16:36:41 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196044Judy, Albany, NYMy thoughts are with that family. I can only pray that there is a happy ending to this sad story. The world could use that happy ending now more than ever; at a time when there is too much war, too much hatred, and too much sadness. As children are our future, we need to do our utmost to protect them from predators and keep them safe. Madeline is an angel ... please see that she is returned safely to her parents.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196045Fri, 18 May 2007 16:36:47 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196045Elaine Chapman, Anson, TexasI find it astounding that so many are coming down hard on the parents for leaving their children alone, sleeping, while they dined with friends nearby. These people should keep their thoughts to themselves and try to realize what the parents of Madeline are now going through. Those of us who have not experienced what the McCanns are now experiencing have no right to speak out in condemnation. We should instead show compassion. There have been many cases in which young children were abducted from their own beds, in their own homes. It is impossible for a normal person to imagine how evil some individuals are, and to what lengths these evil individuals will go. Many parents do not realize this, including myself when I was in my early 30's. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196052Fri, 18 May 2007 16:37:31 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196052Jane Doe, New York, NYMaybe people can learn from the people's tragic decision. They must have gotten lucky previously to do such a thing again. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196056Fri, 18 May 2007 16:37:52 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196056EMCI agree with Steve of Idaho and others. Those who condemn, and want to invoke laws of child abuse, child protective services, etc, are more interested in their being "right" and righteous, than having compassion for the human condition or the missing child. They would sentence Jean ValJean to hang.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196061Fri, 18 May 2007 16:38:50 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196061STEPHANIE GALLIMORE STARKE FLORIDAI AGREE WITH EVERYONE THAT CLAIMS THEY SHOULD HAVE STAYED WITH THE CHILDREN. WHAT PARENT IN THERE RIGHT MIND WOULD LEAVE NOT 1 BUT 3 SLEEPING CHILDREN BETWEEN THE AGES 4-2 ALONE. I HAVE A 5YR OLD AND A 3 YR OLD. AND I WOULDN'T DARE THINK ABOUT LEAVING THEM ALONE. LET ALONE IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY. YOUR CHILDREN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE YOUR WORLD. NOTHING IS TOO IMPORTANT TO LEAVE THEM. THEY SHOULD HAVE GOT SOMEONE TO WATCH THEM OR STAYED WITH THEM. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THE LITTLE GIRL I PRAY SHES OKAY AND WELL, BUT SHOULD SOMETHING BE DONE TO THE PARENTS. I MEAN THEY ARE DOCTORS THEY DO KNOW THE LAW. THAT IS CONSIDERED CHILD NEGLECT. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196062Fri, 18 May 2007 16:38:57 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196062Kerrie, Nevada,USAI feel sorry for this family. My prayers are with them. The guilt these parents must feel, the fact that they wake every morning knowing they are to blame. Why would two intelligent people think that it is okay to leave small children alone? It is my understanding that the resort offers childcare,why not use it. I hope the child is safe. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196063Fri, 18 May 2007 16:39:05 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196063AJI agree with everyone who blames the parents first-how stupid could these people be? I have 9 children and I don't leave them alone even together, and my oldest is 17! These people obviously shouldn't have had kids, and I hope family services take their other two children away for protection before they get "misplaced" during the parent's leisure time as well.I hope God has taken the little girl to a kinder more cared for place then her parents ever seemed to have bothered to give her. This should be a lesson to all you "professional" couples out there-if you're not going to take the time, effort and SACRIFICE to care for your kids every minute of every day-just don't have them!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196064Fri, 18 May 2007 16:39:14 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196064Doris selden, Cedarville, OhioMy heart and prayers go out to these parents. When I traveled in Germany I was surprised to learn it is acceptable and considered safe to leave children nearby unattended while one has dinner, something unthinkable here in the states. Before condemning parents, consider the cultural differences and put the blame where it belongs, on the person/persons who did this. These parents need support, not blame.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196065Fri, 18 May 2007 16:39:30 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196065Amanda, London, EnglandI pity the folk who are so vehemently dissaproving of Madeline's parents for leaving the children alone. You do not know the full story and circumstances and irrelevant to that,this is no time for self-satisfied smugness. Where is your humanity? It is certainly not in the words you write which are full of hatred an holier than thou constenation,which does little to reflect your concern for Maddie and more to highlight your own unsuitability for parenting - which is not an exact science!! I notice many of the comments are from US citizens. It's worth pointing out there are places (normally outside the US) which are genearlly very safe for children. Trigger happy teeanagers and drug crazed gangs are rare, as is kidnap. Parents who choose to bring their children up in unsafe areas must surely be equally if not more rresponsible? You want to know the kind of people who commit terrible crimes like this? It's the kind of person who lacks empathy for their fellow man!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196067Fri, 18 May 2007 16:40:18 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196067Valley City, OHI believe that everyone needs to stop judging these parents. They know what they did. They do not need to be reminded. What we need to do is to pray that the truth come out and their child's whereabouts be found ASAP. It's so easy for one person to judge others,,but I am quite confident to state that every parent has done something stupid and without thought that has put their child in harm's way. Let's pray for this family and thank God you didn't do something that you are not proud of..http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196070Fri, 18 May 2007 16:40:33 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196070BarbI feel really bad for the parents. I read a statement in an article yesterday in which someone made a comment claiming that the family put themselves in this situation by leaving their children alone. I thought that was really nasty. Have there not already been instances of children being taken from their homes in the middle of the night with parents home? Yes and one ended really tragic here in the US. People need to take into consideration there are other cultures and countries who have a different norm system. Either way nobody has a right to take anyones child away to harm them. Nobody has the right to go into someone else's home, apartment, hotel room etc uninvited. Instead of condeming the parent we need to be looking at the people who are stealing these kids away. I pray for this little girl and it pains me. Imagine having everything you know and love removed from your life. And for those who are judging those families and those socities they should go live there first before they criticize them. Maddy I pray for your safe return and if that is not possible, I pray for the safety of your heart, body and soul. I also pray for those children who are still missing and whom we have never found.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196074Fri, 18 May 2007 16:41:02 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196074chris, westbury NYI myself have two small children 3 1/2 and 1 1/2 and I don't like to leave them alone in the living room while I'm in the kitchen so much can happen within seconds. Now I can never picture my life without my wife or my children in it so I know the McCanns must be extremely heartbroken. But in reality they are the criminals for leaving a four year old and two two-year olds unattended in a hotel room. Regardless of checking up on them every half hour anything can happen and unfortunately something did happen. I pray for Madeleines safe return. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196075Fri, 18 May 2007 16:41:05 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196075steven silvestri bangor,meit is so easy to blame the parent's. it seems that the only constant in today'e world is that we must blame someone. how about blaming the person that took the girl!these parents need compassion at this time, not ridicule. let us just hope she is returned safely.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196077Fri, 18 May 2007 16:41:38 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196077TBird Austin TexasAs a mom of two young kids my heart goes out to this family. Granted, I would not have made their choice of leaving the kids in the room alone, but that's not my place to judge them. They are kicking themselves enough as it is, all the while dealing with a missing child. No family deserves to go through such a nightmare. I hope that Madeline is found soon and safe. Stop vilifying the parents, they simply did what they thought was right. How many of us have made decisions about our kids that other people would have thought insane? Remember: he who is without sin may cast the first stone.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196079Fri, 18 May 2007 16:41:45 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196079Kendra, Iola, KansasI too feel for the little girl, I pray that she is okay. But I can't help but put the blame on the parents. You should never leave kids that age alone. Especially that age, before they really understand the dangers of the world. I just can't get over them thinking that was okay. I have a 3yr old and a 3month old, and at both ages, they can get into something at a drop of a hat. Especailly the 3yr old because he is wanting to be independent and do things on his own. I could only imagine all the things that could go wrong in a motel room, with out someone taking a child. As parents, we have a responsibility that we must make our children our main concern, even if that means missing out of other "fun" things. I can say that I've missed out on certian things because of my kids, but I thank god every day that I have that opurtinity to miss out on things because I still have them. I do pray for her safety.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196080Fri, 18 May 2007 16:41:45 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196080Melinda Moody, Brandywine, MDTo Kate and Gerry, God Bless you both. I pray that she will be home safe soon! Stay strong and stay positive! Don't let these negative comments hurt you. Some people have no heart and one day they may be in the same situaiton and some judgemental, heartless person will say hurtful things to them. God be with you and your children. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196081Fri, 18 May 2007 16:42:11 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196081Tamara, Phoenix AZIt is very unfortunate that this has happened. But my mind can't seem to grasp why leaving children unattened by themselves in a hotel room in another part of the world.. would be considered as a great idea? The parents are in a profession of which they help to take care of people and think with their brains as well as make crucial decisions with using common sense and knowledge. I do not feel sorry for the parents, but rather for 4-year-old Madeleine McCann. However, my prayers will go out to the entire family. No parent should have to expierence the lost of a child. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196086Fri, 18 May 2007 16:42:30 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196086Beth Silverthorne - Cincinnati, OhioThe little girl is the victim here. The victim of neglect first, and whatever fate has befallen her second. The parents should be arrested, and the rest of the world needs to pray and look for the little girl, if she is found safe she needs to be placed with someone much more responsibe.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196088Fri, 18 May 2007 16:42:42 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196088Kristine, OhioThese parents know they made a mistake but they are not to blame. This could happen to anyone, anywhere. Look at Elizabeth Smart, she was taken from her bedroom with her parents down the hall. The blame is solely on the person or persons who did this. My thoughts and prayers are with them and may God bring this little girl back home.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196090Fri, 18 May 2007 16:42:44 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196090Julie, Rancho Cucamonga, CAI do feel very awful for the parents and any other family involved it this situation, but again i do have to agree with all the other comments you just dont leave your children unattended these days at all especially at the young age these children were, this is a very unfortunate thing that has happened now because of the parents careless actions to just enjoy themselves a little bit. Us parents need to realize our children are not safe at all anywhere in this world anymore they need us to watch over them all the time and take full responsibility as parents to these little angels that need us so much.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196091Fri, 18 May 2007 16:42:51 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196091JeffPlease GOD delivery her safely to her parents. If you could send Amy lee from Boston MA to take her place.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196095Fri, 18 May 2007 16:43:15 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196095Margaret E. I feel sorry for the children but I never can understand why they left the children to go out. My husband works nights. We have 4 and the only reason I left them alone was to go to the hospital or get medicine but that is why I got a dog. He is very smart, faithful, and many times I depended on him to protect my family. Otherwise, I stay with my children and take them everywhere. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196096Fri, 18 May 2007 16:43:41 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196096Steven, Fredericksburg, VirginiaYou self-righteous nitwits are absolutely awful! Stop blaming the parents. If the child was abducted, the villian is the abductor, not the grieving parents. It could happen to any of us. Blaming the poor parents is like saying that a rape victim "was asking for it". I pray that the little girl is quickly found safe and sound.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196097Fri, 18 May 2007 16:43:48 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196097CARL CARLSONFOR BEING THE SMART PEOPLE TO BE DOCTORS, THEY HAVE NOT ONE LICK OF COMMON SENCE ABOUT CHILDREN,I JUST DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE THINK IT IS OK IN THIS WORLD THESES DAYS TO LEAVE THEIR LITTLE DEFENCELESS ONES ALONE, THERE ARE SO MANY BAD PEOPLE TO HARM THEM BE SMARTER PEOPLE PLEASE, FOR THE CHILDRENhttp://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196098Fri, 18 May 2007 16:43:48 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196098Glynda, Rowland Hts, CAThere was something said by the reporter in their story "God knows..." stop there. If we look at the world and situations through carnal eyes and ears, we hear, see, think, fear the worse. But when we see through our spiritual eyes, and know the word of GOD which states, HE is in control and working things out for the benefit of those who love him. It will be okay, even if it doesnt appear to be. God does know-trust in this. Have faith-i have faith in HIM for whatever HIS will may be and praise HIM for it. May the LORD continually bring peace, mercy and grace upon your family. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196099Fri, 18 May 2007 16:43:50 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196099HeidiThe remark 'I would never leave my children alone, especially in a foreign country' that I see in a number of comments really irks me. What picture are you painting of foreign countries as a whole? We're not talking Sierre Leone or Afghanistan but a Western European country. Especially southern Europeans always watch out for children. In all the times I have been there I have never felt unsafe for me or my children. The McCanns are Europeans and - like most - apparently still had faith in the inherent goodness of people. Of course their decision to leave 2 little children was - in hindsight - a bad idea, regardless of the country. Then again, I'm sure we are all guilty of some more or less harebrained actions involving our kids. The difference is, we were lucky and they weren't. So who are we to cast stones? I feel for the parents and I hope they will get their little girl back safe and sound.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196100Fri, 18 May 2007 16:43:57 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196100Nicole Jenson, Manteca CaliforniaAmy lee from boston... yes the parents were not smart leaving her alone but you sitting there stating that they got what they deserved is probably one of the most horrible things you can possibly say... NO ONE deserves this, and you should be ashamed of yourself for saying that... I deeply hope that this little girl is found safe and returned to her parents. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196101Fri, 18 May 2007 16:44:01 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196101Louise H, Rochester, New YorkThey got what they deserved???? - how can anyone (Amy lee from Boston) make such a cruel statement. Granted I am with everyone else that they shouldn't have been left alone - but to make such a statement - it wasn't the little girls fault that her parents weren't thinking - you really think she deserved to be kidnapped?http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196102Fri, 18 May 2007 16:44:14 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196102Sad, Tucson, AZThis is just another example of how people think, "I am a good person, this cannot happen to me." Wrong! Even though you checked back every 30 minutes...WAKE UP!! 30 minutes is quite a long time for anything to take place. Actions have consequences and it is sad and breaks every parents' heart to hear about the tragedy of a child being kidnapped and/or put in harms way. This was totally preventable and should have never happened! I hope and pray this little girl is found safe! http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196103Fri, 18 May 2007 16:44:25 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196103Karen Des Moines Iathe doors are locked only those who have keys can get into a hotel room or was the door broke in that case why did the other child not wake up. I did not get full story but under these cercumstances do not hold your self fully at fault for we are all only human and as parents no one is perfect and if someone say's they are they are liers. Doctors,other professions or just a single parent we are all only human. God blesshttp://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196105Fri, 18 May 2007 16:44:29 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196105Ted in dallas txAmy Lee in boston, They realy screwed up, but "they got what they deserved"? You are as bad as the ANIMALS that did it!!!!!!!!!!!!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196106Fri, 18 May 2007 16:44:30 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196106Julie, Hoopeston, ILI agree with Steve,Idaho, this is not the time to worry about the parents leaving the children. Prayers need to be said for Madeline and her family. Pray that Madeline will be safely returned to her parents and that the parents stay strong and faithful and for two other little children that were blessedly left behind.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196107Fri, 18 May 2007 16:44:32 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196107Anne Houston, TXAs we all know Leaving a child of any age alone in a strange place is wrong, as we watch this unfold in front of very eyes our hearts and prayers go out to the family. Right, wrong or even endifferent this is a costly mistake that they will never forget. May WE ALL learn from this horrible ordeal. Children depend on US (the Parents) to protect them so Please let keep them safe.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196110Fri, 18 May 2007 16:45:44 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196110sherry buckThe parents are an example of this new generation that just do not think of consequences and just do. They probably let their kids run around in restaurants letting others have to deal with it while they dine. The world is just cracked. If you have children you must take responsibility which includes teaching children right from wrong.and yes if you can't go out "oh well" don't.If parents took more time with their prized posessions the world can concentrate on more important issues. I have 4 grown children ,I couldn't find sitters I trusted and never left them,they were taught respect, right from wrong, if wrong occurred you pay the piper and had to answer to me.They had a very hard life and we all struggled. Today they are beautiful, grown adults from 38-24.Totally independant,and successful in every aspect of life. Yes it was very hard work as a single mom. I am 62 and as I write this my heart is full that my efforts paid off.You reap what you sow.I love them so and totally proud of them. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196111Fri, 18 May 2007 16:45:50 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196111Laura, an American in EuropeAs an American living in Europe, I can offer a different perspective on the parents' decision to leave their children in the hotel room alone. Americans are conditioned by both the media and reality to be hyper-aware of crime in a way that Europeans are not. Crime, particularly violent crime, is simply more prevalent in the U.S. than it is in Europe. While I likely would not leave my child alone in an American hotel room, I would probably be much more comfortable doing so in Western Europe. Before you judge the McCanns too harshly, consider that there are cultural and societal differences of which you are not aware. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196117Fri, 18 May 2007 16:47:10 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196117Carol, MichiganIt's easy for us here in America to judge how we would handle our kids being left alone for even a second. The reality is that in many other parts of the world people aren't nearly as paranoid as we are. It is quite common in Europe to leave your baby stroller outside with baby in it while you run into the coffee shop. Here we'd call that gruonds for abuse. In other countries they have different views. How unfortuanate for this family to have to learn such a hard lesson. Maybe this instance will effect those overseas to consider changing their behavior as it relates to leaving young children alone. It's not about social standing or anything like that. It's a difference in culture. We would not think of leaving our kids, they wouldn't think of owning a gun. Who's right, who's wrong? It doesn't matter. What matters is we keep this family in our thoughts and pray for the safe return of their precious daughter. No judgements only loving kindness in the hour of their need.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196118Fri, 18 May 2007 16:47:11 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196118kathy thomasI have 3 beautiful grandgirls ...While i was raising my own family ...i never left them alone in our home .. either they went with me or a responsible friend took care of them while i was out however i think the parents of this child felt their daughter was safe .because perhaps they "knew" this could never happen to them .. i pray for all involved and safe return of the child http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196120Fri, 18 May 2007 16:47:23 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196120Nana J., Washington, DC, DCThese parents are so miserable right now. Nothing you can say or do can punish them like they're punishing themselves for this poor judgement call. They're miserable right now because one of their babies is missing. Yeah, they were stupid, but, the child is missing. Bottom Line, THE BABY'S GONE. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196121Fri, 18 May 2007 16:47:39 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196121William Paules, Simi Valley, CaA family is missing their child. And somewhere there is a child desperately missing her parents. More important than sounding off on the parents mistakes (which is absolutely amazing people would do right now) is to send support and prayers. Some of these messages shows the exact problem with our society. People are quick to Hate and slow to Love http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196142Fri, 18 May 2007 16:50:18 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196142Dionna Renee, Dallas, TXI disagree with the parents' decision to leave the children alone but as far as some people saying they got what they deserve I completely disagree with that no one deserves that nightmare. I have been praying for Madeline since I read the story yesterday. I am a mother of a 3 1/2 year old and I would be absolutely devastated if anythign ever happened to her. My hope and prayers go out to the family and for anyone going through an ordeal such as this.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196143Fri, 18 May 2007 16:50:19 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196143Alton JamesOur prayers go out to the family and families all over the world... What has our world come to when the innocent are not safe from harm... Monsters are preying upon our children all over the world, our future world, and young, are at great risk and peril... We pray that Madeline will be returned to the safety and love of her parents, and that other missing and exploited children will be delivered from inhumane captors....... http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196145Fri, 18 May 2007 16:50:38 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196145Luis Doe, Los Angeles, CAAt the risk of sounding heartless, I hope Madeleine was actually sold to parents who will actually LOVE and CARE for her. Parents who abandon their children at such a young age are demonstrating their apathy to a defenseless human. Who is really the monster? I also have a 3-year old girl, and I NEVER let her out of my sight! Granted I'm not as educated as a doctor is, but I have learned that this is a dangerous world for children in this day and age. Also, although I don't earn as much as TWO doctors, I can always afford to hire a babysitter to keep my children safe.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196146Fri, 18 May 2007 16:50:48 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196146Alton JamesOur prayers go out to the family and families all over the world... What has our world come to when the innocent are not safe from harm... Monsters are preying upon our children all over the world, our future world, and young, are at great risk and peril... We pray that Madeline will be returned to the safety and love of her parents, and that other missing and exploited children will be delivered from inhumane captors....... http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196148Fri, 18 May 2007 16:50:50 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196148Carol, Mt. Pleasant, PAI just hate to think what this little girl must have went through or still be going through. Everyone one makes mistakes in judgement and this is one mistake that I'm sure these parents will regret forever; perhaps even more so when they discover what their child might have had to endure because of their actions. I pray for the McCanns but especially for Madeleine, who if found alive, will have to deal with the trauma this situation has caused her.God is the only one who can judge our actions. So, let's not be so worried about placing blame at this point rather let us pray that Madeleine is found alive and has the kind of character that lets her deal with this tragedy.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196149Fri, 18 May 2007 16:50:53 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196149John Doe, Seattle, WashBoth parents are intelligent enough to pull this off without leaving a single clue. Both parents are wise enough to be each others alibi and more that wise enough to lock the door behind themselves when leaving a hotel room. 1. no clues, 2. no independent alibi, 3. unlocked door. What else do we know? Maybe this was done by the same person OJ simpson is still looking for........strange.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196154Fri, 18 May 2007 16:52:09 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196154Laura, an American in EuropeAs an American living in Europe, I can offer a different perspective on the parents' decision to leave their children in the hotel room alone. Americans are conditioned by both the media and reality to be hyper-aware of crime in a way that Europeans are not. Crime, particularly violent crime, is simply more prevalent in the U.S. than it is in Europe. While I likely would not leave my child alone in an American hotel room, I would probably be much more comfortable doing so in Western Europe. Before you judge the McCanns too harshly, consider that there are cultural and societal differences of which you are not aware. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196155Fri, 18 May 2007 16:52:11 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196155Rebecca, Santa Rosa, CaliforniaLike everyone, my heart stopped when I saw her beautiful face. Like many on this post, I can't get over the incomperable stupidity of her parents to leave her and two younger children alone in an unlocked room! I wonder why only the 4 year old is missing; if you are a sicko-freak, why leave anyone behind. And, if the restaurant was 100 yards away, why wasn't a baby monitor being used? We use one when we are camping, 100 yards was well within range.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196158Fri, 18 May 2007 16:52:17 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196158Sherrie Wiegel, La Porte IndianaMy heart aches for this family. People should learn the lesson of "judge not-lest you also be judged". Not one person knows the devastation felt by this family. I pray for the safe return of Madeleine and for the great peace that only God can provide for her parents, and I ask God to give compassion and comprehension to those who have it not.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196190Fri, 18 May 2007 16:58:31 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196190Mala YoungMy heart aches for this little girl. I pray, "Dear God, please cover her, keep her safe and return her to her parents." Gone are the days when we can be trusting of our environment. We have to be in constant vigil especially where our children are concerned.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196192Fri, 18 May 2007 16:58:39 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196192jenny pa, usathis is child neglect that is the only way to describe this incident. here in the us these parents would be charged by the police with neglect for leaving a 4 year old and 2 two year olds on their own. what in god's name were they thinking???? actually maybe the question should be - were they thinking at all??? come home safe madeline you are in my prayers.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196194Fri, 18 May 2007 16:58:44 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196194Steve M, San DiegoI am sorry, but with all due respect Steve, I think you are missing the point. I know hindsight is 20/20, but they created this situation, and are now paying for it. I have IMMENSE compassion for them, and I so hope that little 'M' comes back okay. But, that was way beyond stupid to leave THREE toddler-aged children unprotected for no matter how long, and especially for a selfish reason like entertainment. If I had done that, every 2-3 minutes I'd have this overwhelming urge to leave and check on them making the whole thing a distracting waste of time. I am a dad of two boys and I NEVER considered even maybe leaving them alone to run to the store or a quick errand until one of them was in middle school. Even then I am hesitant. I have been in situations where my wife and I swapped time with friends so that at least one of us was always with the kids. That's just common sense to me. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196195Fri, 18 May 2007 16:58:46 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196195Jimmy Etherington ,Newport Beach CaliforniaI would be utterly broken down with despair...I pray for her safe return....As do millions of parents across the globe...I thinkm it is important to support Local or National Orginizations that raise awareness , and help promote the safe return of Missing Children..NCMEC.National Center for Missing and Exploited Children......http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196197Fri, 18 May 2007 16:58:50 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196197jenny pa, usathis is child neglect that is the only way to describe this incident. here in the us these parents would be charged by the police with neglect for leaving a 4 year old and 2 two year olds on their own. what in god's name were they thinking???? actually maybe the question should be - were they thinking at all??? come home safe madeline you are in my prayers.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196198Fri, 18 May 2007 16:59:16 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196198Sharen, MontanaFor Pete's sake give it a rest all you perfect people out there! When we went camping the kids were put to bed in the tent or trailer and the adults sat around the campfire and visited. Does that make us bad parents? My heart goes out to this family and I pray to God their little girl is found safe and soon!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196199Fri, 18 May 2007 16:59:32 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196199Yvonne PendleyIn today's world. You cannot even allow your children to play alone in your yard. When my children were little. We were blessed with the being able to have the freedom to go to the park, ride our bicycles to our friends. But, it is a different worl today. Today children do not have the freedom as my children did. It is very sad. But, we have to be realistic. It seems we have to be alert at all times when it comes to being safe. Even cautious with people whom you believe you can trust. We always must be alert to our surroundings. The parents just made a bad judgement. It was not intentional. It will be one they will remember. It was just a terrible decision. They could have been i the apt. and it still could have happened. I know because, it happened to me and my son. We were asleep in separate rooms. Those people that prey are watching and generally succeed with their evil ways. Because that is the way they are and the way they think. EVIL!! We willnever understand. Becaue, we do not think like they do. So many people believe it cannot happen to me. But, it can. Yvonne - Oklahoma http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196201Fri, 18 May 2007 16:59:43 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196201Emma, Wellington, New ZealandI have learned never to point fingers at anyone else because when you do 3 point right back at yourself. Of course, these loving parents should not have left the kids alone in a hotel room. Don't you think they know that, ecspecially now, and do you really think that they need people to say over and over again "I told you so".... Well let's live in the moment here people. It is what it is, Their beautiful child is missing and I can't begin to imagine their pain. I have a 4 year old daughter and I misplaced her in a department store for 3 minutes once and just about lost my mind. Every parent has gone through it at least once with a toddler that they lose them from their site and yes it is scarey so I know I have no business whatsoever casting any judgement on these folks. Let's find Madeliene!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196202Fri, 18 May 2007 16:59:45 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196202Mala Young, Las Vegas, NVMy heart aches for this little girl. I pray, "Dear God, please cover her, keep her safe and return her to her parents." Gone are the days when we can be trusting of our environment. We have to be in constant vigil especially where our children are concerned.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196209Fri, 18 May 2007 17:01:35 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196209valerie n.,greensboro,nc.they left the child alone?they went out and had a good time,huh?SOUNDS A "little"convenient to me!a convenient alibi!!!!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196211Fri, 18 May 2007 17:02:08 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196211B. Bloom, Hackettstown, NJI agree wholeheartedly with the last two comments. Of course they shouldn't have left them alone, but that's already done. Lets focus on the fact that the little girl is out there somewhere. Not only that, SOMEONE knows something. I for one will keep my fingers crossed that that someone comes forward soon. Noone should have to go through this kind of pain.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196213Fri, 18 May 2007 17:02:12 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196213Jan Elder, Albany,OregonThis day you can't even keep your kids safe in there own beds at night. Parents don't always do things right,but you can't leavr kids left alone anytime. I think the parents are paying big time for there mistake. They love there kids. People that steal kids should be put down like a rabid dog for sure. But I also think sometimes parents forget that there kids are not safe. Kids should be loved,protected and watched every second. I hope Maddie and all of the other kids missing come safe and sound and to the loving arms of there parents. People are human and make mistakes.We do not do enough to protect are kids.We do try but we don't. I have 3 kids and grandkids, my kids were never left unattended. We need to have tougher laws and carry them out fast,not leave these creeps on death row or give them so little time in jail/prison.Take them all out line them against a wall and take them out,no questions ask,just do it. They eveil people who do not care for life of these kids. They are not human but belong to Satan. God Bless all of you have lost or have kids missing. Keep the faith and be strong cause when your kids come home they are going to need you more than ever.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196214Fri, 18 May 2007 17:02:27 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196214Nancy Woods, Pinellas Park , FLDoes anyone use spell check or punctuation anymore? Your comments would be taken more seriously, if you did not sound like a mo-ron!!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196216Fri, 18 May 2007 17:02:32 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196216aunjelyse,det.,michthis is a sad story and i wiss for the best. im not a mother but i feel the pain. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196218Fri, 18 May 2007 17:02:38 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196218Kari : Columbus, IN.What a story, it's sooo sad, there are children in my nieghborhood, who by some miracle haven't been taken by a stranger, there are alot of parents who just DO NOT watch their children, it's awful!Shame!!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196219Fri, 18 May 2007 17:02:47 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196219Liz, NJWhat happened to Madeleine is terrible, and the entire family must be suffering beyond comprehension. But I think we should stop laying the blame on the parents. How about blaming the kidnapper? My point is this, do not throw stones when you live in a glass house.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196221Fri, 18 May 2007 17:03:02 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196221Dee, Seattle,WaMy prayers are with the family. I also pray for Maddies safe return.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196222Fri, 18 May 2007 17:03:12 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196222Angela W, Mt. Morris, MII am praying for a safe return!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196227Fri, 18 May 2007 17:03:41 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196227Sharon, Oak Ridge, NCI have cried millions of tears over the last 10 years or more for all the children that have been abducted and/or killed. If you blink, something can go terribly wrong! Although I don't condone leaving children alone ever, if we all admit to it we know we have done the same thing at one time or another, just to run to the store for a gallon of milk or whatever right down the block for a second. Please, please pray for this child and her family. They need it so much more than condemation. I for one hope that she is found safe. And that these parents never forget this but learn to forgive themselves. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196229Fri, 18 May 2007 17:03:44 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196229Ron Eisenberg Overland Park kansasAs a single Father of two boys 13 and 9 I grieve for the parents of the child. But I do agreee that they should not have left the children unattened for even 5 minutes. A four year old left to deal with two two year olds, even if they were asleep.Two Doctors and they couldn't even hire a babysitter or a nanny? I fear that there is something deeper to be discovered. I look at this is as another Jo Benet case. I would definetley look at the parents. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196230Fri, 18 May 2007 17:03:53 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196230Jacqueline, Edmonton, AlbertaIt's easy to lay blame or to criticize. Left alone or left with a babysitter, either could result in a similar ending. There are far too many stories about children harmed by a babysitter, a friend, or even a close family member. Unfortunately, tragedies occur even when a parent is constantly around but turns their back only for one minute. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196231Fri, 18 May 2007 17:04:02 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196231Corinna, Winnipeg, CanadaShame on you-It is so easy to be negative to the parents in this situation. They know only too well how this tragedy could have been avoided and this knowledge is killing them inside every waking second. So shove the blame game and the self-rightchousness in the toilet and flush. (Those of you who have not sinned cast the first stone...) This family needs us to focus on prayers and put this in God's hands -not ours. All things are possible with God. Let go of all your judgements people and focus instead on asking God to forgive you and to love this family and to bring a happy reunion of this family. The less negative and the more positive focus on God in this situation will keep nasty Satan from touching this situation any further. Pray and be vigilant in prayer. When your thoughts turn negative- seek Him instead so that our focus is on Him. If we let go of ourselves and our judgement- then the prayers will get thru and GOD will take care of this in His way- we need to trust in Him and not on our own understandings. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196232Fri, 18 May 2007 17:04:06 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196232aunjelyse,det.,michThis is a sad story and I wish for the best. I'm not a mother but I feel the pain. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196234Fri, 18 May 2007 17:04:31 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196234Bobbi, ConnecticutCome on people, try to have a little class, this is not the time to pass judgment on these parents. I too am a mother and have made mistakes as we all have. I can't imagine the agony the McCann's are feeling right now. The world really needs to focus its attention and prayers to this sweet little girl who is out there somewhere and her parents who desperately want her back. I pray that God will watch over little Madeline and that God will forgive all those who choose to judge her parents so harshly. Maybe if we could all learn to be a little more compassionate, the world would be a better place. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196235Fri, 18 May 2007 17:04:34 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196235Liza Tapia Vaughan, Monterey, CAI am heartsick for these parents. Yes, they made a poor decision regarding caring for their children that night, but an evil monster exploited it and now the child and parents are paying an unbearable price. No parent should have to go through the hell that the McCanns are dealing with now and perhaps forever. I feel they deserve only our support and empathy. Instead of casting blame, let us all unite in prayer, asking to bring little Maddie back to her mum and dad.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196236Fri, 18 May 2007 17:04:54 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196236Ian, Portland, ORWhile I hope the child returns safely, all of you screaming for CPS or the police to investigate the parents need to step off and leave it alone. This did not occur in the US, where the people allow the government to raise their kids. What they did isn't illegal there, it's an accepted practice. Besides, that's NOT the issue here. The fate of a child IS. Stop trying to force YOUR ideas of morals on the rest of the world.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196238Fri, 18 May 2007 17:05:07 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196238Peter SarlHaving read these messages it seems that they are virtually all from the United States. Just remember that there are still some places in the world where (thank goodness) the risk of danger to children or property is significantly less than perhaps it is in parts of America. Where I live, we sell fruit, vegetables and flowers on the hedges outside our homes and a glass jar to collect the money. It rarely gets stolen. We often leave our cars unlocked and children are generally considered safe when out alone (it is not a perfect place, however so we do take some care). That part of Portugal is reckoned to be one of the safest holiday environments in Europe. Please let a bit of uderstanding prevail and don't judge these dear people by the standards you would have to apply at home. Peter, Guernsey, British Channel Islandshttp://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196239Fri, 18 May 2007 17:05:08 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196239LeighS., Cleveland, OhioFirst of all, I do feel badly for Madeleine's family. My family and I were vacationing at Universal Studios in Florida when our then-two-year-old son decided he wanted to see the stegosaurus again. I let go of his hand for a few seconds and he was gone. The time between our son's disappearance and his deliverance back to us by an older couple and two police officers was the longest three or four minutes of our lives. One thing bothers me about this scenario, however...Madeleine's parents didn't just let go for a few seconds- they let go for a half-hour or longer. What on earth were they thinking? Cultural differences offer only a partial explanation. Don't they hear occasional news stories from America? Did these two supposedly-educated people really think it was perfectly safe for them to leave a 3-year-old and two 2-year-olds alone, in a private suite, while they went out and ate dinner? Restaurants are noisy, crowded places- even if, as the parents say, they could see the balcony of their suite, however, could they have heard Madeleine scream, 500 yards away, surrounded by boisterous and possibly drunken people? What if the kidnappers would have wanted the twins instead? Could Madeleine have been expected to run and find her parents, at age three, in a restaurant that wasn't even in the same building, let alone in the same locale? I'm sorry, it's not that we all don't make mistakes, but this kind of "mistake" is akin to driving straight off a bridge at 100 miles an hour. These parents should have known better. I only hope that the media blitz serves one purpose- to get the word out so no parents, British or otherwise, leave their children alone, at such young ages, like this anymore. Once is one time too many. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196344Fri, 18 May 2007 17:21:46 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196344E New Jerseyafter reading several messages at first my thoughts went out to the heartache of the parents, but then on my second thought I have to say...two grown educated adults again only thinking of their own pleasure and wanting to "live their life" One of them could not sacrafise an evening out to stay with their babies...how sad is that. To all you other parents who don't want to miss that night out.......think about what you may miss for the rest of your life! I ONLY pray for that INNOCENT child not only missing possibly due to an evil unkown but to the evil known as well.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196345Fri, 18 May 2007 17:21:48 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196345Gabriela Marquez, Pomona, CAReading this story my heart breaks! I have a 3 year old little boy and I can't imagine loosing him and I possitivly can't imagine leaving him alone even if he's sleeping. Loosing him would devastate me and I would possibly die of a broken heart, so in this sense my prayers go out to the the parents of this cute little girl. What I don't understand is how could these two educated parents being doctors could leave their 4 year old daughter and her 2 yr old siblings alone! HELLOOOO! I don't care what the reason is, don't they know that there is no such thing as a safe place in the world today. I am sure these two parents are now paying the consequences of their actions of neglect and that alone is a form of punishment for them, but still there should be some type of arrest made here! http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196346Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:02 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196346Barbara, Murfreesboro, TNAs a mother of two young girls, I feel for these parents. I didn't think they were all that smart for leaving the children until I heard it was only 100 yards away. My children have rooms in the front of our house and my husband and I sit outside in the summer on the other end of the house in the back to enjoy some us time. I never worry that my kids are being abducted. But, it could happen to us. Don't demonize the parents. They were not far away and did check on the kids every 30 minutes. I don't, but maybe I should. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196347Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:06 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196347SaphfyreMy prayers are with you and your child. And remember, from now on, suitable child care is available anywhere.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196348Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:07 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196348Debbie Green, Woodbridge, VirginiaAs far as showing compassion for the parents I can understand that we all make mistakes but it is very hard to understand the simple common sense that is lacking here. I just hope that the little girl is found safe and sound. What a horrible, terrible thing this is to happen to anyone....http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196349Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:15 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196349Erin, Atlanta, GAI can't believe how some of you are being so hard on these parents. You should be ashamed of yourself for saying "they got what they deserved!" You are cruel, thoughtless people that have absolutely NO idea what kind of horrible pain these people are going through. So they had a lapse in judgment - that does not make them DESERVE to have their child taken from them - not to mention what that poor little girl may be going through right now. I suppose that I am not considering how PERFECT all of you must be, and that you must have never made a mistake in your life. You should be absolutely ashamed of yourselves. I hope the next time you accidentally leave your stove on, your house burns down. Then we can all tell you how much it serves you right.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196350Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:18 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196350Laura Christian, Baltimore, MDI know what it is to be wracked with guilt over my mistakes. I lost my husband in a terrible way. The remorse will live with me forever, and when others join me in the flogging, it makes the pain worse for all involved. These parents are already feeling awful. They don't need to be fed more guilt; they need to be buoyed up with support.http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196351Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:24 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196351Roxanne RobertsTrue, this tragedy should never have occurred....but placing blame does not contribute to bringing a missing chld home. My thoughts are with this child and her family. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196352Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:28 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196352Lynn, WisconsinI don't even like going to bed at night knowing someone could break into my own home and take my child - let alone purposely leave her in a strage place unattended. I also won't let her go very far outside to play without being able to keep an eye on her - and she's 8 years old. I just know better. I read and watch the news, in these times - everyone should know better by now. I'm very sorry for these people, but it's such common sense! http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#196353Fri, 18 May 2007 17:22:32 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:196353Linda, Trevose PAAll the money donated to find the girl. Some parents might find that unfair. Especially when the girl went missing when the parents were at fault for losing her. Leaving them alone like that. What a couple of loser parents, especially big time doctors. What were you doing, having your expensive dinner with other rich pomps as you dicuss your view on how the world is overwhelmed by apathy and lack of education. I have an 8 year old and don't even let him cross the street without me or an older person. I'm sure there are other children out there that could use a huge reward offering. It just goes to show you, money talks. Nobody cares about the poor or middle class family who just lost their child, just the rich doctors child. Makes me sick and even to parents who were the ones who lost the child. I just feel sorry for the little girl. God only knows what she is going through or had gone through and is now taken from this world. I just pray, if she is alive, she is returned and is not harmed and if she is not alive, I just hope she didn't suffer. I really do. I could never imagine my son suffering any torture or pain. I would end my life in grief. God help the little girl that she will not suffer any longer. This I truly pray. I don't believe any living thing should suffer. That's all I want for this little girl, screw her parents. http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#251148Sat, 30 Jun 2007 01:44:14 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:251148Miranda --Lenoir, NCi could only imagine the guilt the parents have.. the world in not how it was 50 years ago, an then it was not perfect... but what has happened has happened and we can only pray for what will happen in the future.. maddy is in my prayers...http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#262166Mon, 09 Jul 2007 13:35:38 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:262166Anna Meacher Cambridge ON CanadaA child put to bed at night should be in a safe cacoon.  While she sleeps, her parents should protect her just as they do while shes awake.  This child was pulled from sleep by a stranger to circumstances we can only dread.  She went to bed in a safe and secure world and woke up in a confusing and frightening one because her parents failed her and her siblings.  Anyone, who leaves sleeping or awake young children alone is grossly negligent and selfish.  If you've done it and nothing bad happened to them; you are just lucky and some higher power is watching over your kids because you certainly are not.  NO EXCUSES.  Take away the prospect of child predators and there is still the possiblity of a child choking, falling or even waking up with night terrors.  Parenting is a 24 hour job; children should be in your vigilent care or that of another highly trusted adult.  You wouldn't leave your damn money unguarded!!!!!http://worldblog.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2007/05/18/195416.aspx#265107Wed, 11 Jul 2007 04:25:15 GMT8a5d2dbc-a0e4-4c7a-979f-3188051f228e:265107Irene, Rancho Cucamonga, CAWhere are all the psychics when you need them most? I always see them trying to solve 8 year old cold cases on TV and they are alarmingly accurate. There's only one problem. The victim has been dead for years and they are only called in to help find the perpetrator. Why aren't they called in immediately so something horrible can be prevented from happening to the victim in the first place? They have it backwards.