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Karen Lessnor Williamsburg, VA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 17:45:01 GMT

So very sad, things are bad economically here in the States, but there not that bad.

Carol, How can I help?

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Matt, NJ — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:26:20 GMT

How about, I don't know, not having 8 kids???

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Abigail, Abilene, TX — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:32:15 GMT

Does Pakistan allow international adoption? Because I could totally raise one of those babies.

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Jane Doe — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:41:30 GMT

Thank you so much for this orphanage's work. Here is Canada we know so little of the hardships suffered around the world. But my heart broke as I read about the numbers of children that are abandoned, I know offering prayers isn't a lot, but I will pray for your organization. I wish I had money to send but I am ashamed and sorry to say I don't. I live a frivolous life compared to all the suffereing around the world, and I am going to endeaver to start being more responsible so that in the future I am able to send more than prayers. I am adding this to my favorites so I won't forget about it. And in time may be able to help a little. God bless you all for all your work and sacrifices.

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L. Cook — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:49:56 GMT

Yet Pakistan has plenty of money for war!! Like in the U.S. war is more important then hungry people!! The governments have plenty of money to build more WMD's but not enough to feed their children!!! Here in America we have plenty of money for congress and haliburton but very little money for our soldiers or kids on welfare!!! If America is so worried about people in other countries like Iraq then why are we not invading Pakistan?? Must be because they are not a threat to our masters in Israel!!!

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Elizabeth, Wichita, Ks — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:51:29 GMT

What I find most sad and outrageous, is these husbands that don't work and contribute nothing to the family except dead weight, are outraged by mothers who, in desperation, try to get their children out of a bad situation. If these men were so upset, why don't they find SOMETHING that would bring in an income?

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Mike — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:56:34 GMT

The women come back beaten and the workers give them $1200? Dumb move. The women will go home and the Husband will take the money. Never, Never give money. Feed them on the spot.

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Connie Huante, Lawndale, CA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:58:29 GMT

Is there a way to contribute money to The Edhi Foundation, so they can help not only the children in their center but perhaps the community as well, so that there are fewer children abandoned. Who can we send money to? Can you please advise?

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Natasha, Pittsburgh, PA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:58:39 GMT

How can we donate this to this? What can we do to help

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ann mitchell grayling, mich — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:58:41 GMT

i am very grateful for my job and have compassion for the stress so many people now have.

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James W. Jr. Cheseapeake Bay, Virginia — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:59:22 GMT

Parents shouldn't abandon their kids, unless they absolutely have too. They should stick with them, no matter what.

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Jennifer Brown, Grantville, GA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:00:23 GMT

I'd be happy to adopt a little baby girl & give her a great life here in America.

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Liam Andrews, Calgary, AB — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:00:42 GMT

What a sad article. If only these mothers had some access to birth control - or some way of controlling the size of their families. I suppose it's a cultural taboo to even mention it, but it would ease so many of their hardships.

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BB, Austin, TX — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:02:11 GMT

Sounds like the way the US is headed.

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alam, chicago, il — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:06:24 GMT

This is the situation of poor and lower middle class of the country and look what the ruling class is doing in Pakistan.
The president Zardari had a recent trip to Saudia Arabia with around 300 people. That man is mostly out of country hopping around Dubai,London and New York.
The cabinet folks are enjoying BMWS/Benz and Designer Clothes while the country is running out of Foreign Reseves. The finiance minister has been begging for money all across the world to avoid bankrupcy. IMF agreed to give them money but who knows how they will use that money.
Good Lord have mercy on the poor folks down there.

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Mary, California — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:11:05 GMT

Family planning should be a huge global priority. These children are representative of kids all over the world that are not brought into homes that can afford to feed, clothe, shelter and educate them. It is so preventable. Why must this continue to happen?

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Phillip Lackey, Boise, Idaho. — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:11:16 GMT

It's called birth control.

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Shana, South Point, OH — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:12:26 GMT

This is so sad to read. I am a mother of two and cannot possibly imagine what it would be like to have to abandon my children because of being unable to feed and clothe them. Something needs to be done to help these people. There are entirely too many ridiculously rich people in this world for so many people around the world to be suffering.

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Anwar H. Atlanta GA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:13:49 GMT

Hats off to Edhi organization for helping the needy as they do. Rich people of Pakistan need to wake up and start helping out. Please use your wealth for the welfare of poor people like these.

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D.W, Ontario, Canada — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:14:04 GMT

The Goverment of Pakistan needs to worry about the infrastructure of their own country before they worry so much about being major players on the global stage. They want the best of both worlds and are finding that adhereing to antiquated traditions sometimes and wanting to be a 1st world super power others doesn't always work.

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Jen P, Charlotte, NC — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:16:52 GMT

i think this is a very sad story. it breaks my heart to see these children crying & they don't understand why there mom's abandoned them. i have a problem w/cultures that don't promote birth control tho'. a proven method of birth control would prevent families from having too many children, children they cannot take care of & provide basic needs. i'm sure these moms love their kids. i cannot imagine not being able to give my child food & clothing. so sad.

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Lee, Orange, CA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:17:41 GMT

I would be thrilled to adopt one of those little baby girls!!!

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Joe Smith, NYC, NY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:18:27 GMT

Hi All,

Some background on the Edhi Foundation. The founder Abdul Sattar Edhi is referred to as the
"Mother Theresa of Pakistan". Despite the millions of dollars that are donated, the man has two pairs of clothes for the past several years and lives in a shack with his wife for years. Compare this to any worldwide aid organization that has money for marketing, buildings, etc. On top of that, he's received several international awards (surprised he hasnt earned a Nobel yet).

There is information on the Edhi Foundation http://www.edhifoundation.com/

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Maria, NC — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:19:27 GMT

that was a pretty ignorant comment Matt..you don't know their life status when the children were born prior to the economic problems

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Elliott, largo, fl — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:20:11 GMT

For thoes that wish to donate "Google is your friend" http://www.edhifoundation.com/

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Mike S. in NYC — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:23:12 GMT

Similar things are happening in Nebraska be cause of that 'safe haven' law that allows parents to leave their kids at hospitals and the like. And we have a few people who make tens of millions of dollars a year as CEOs of companies such as AIG, General Motors, Wachovia...why is there such a discrepancy in the world? Because capitalism and its underlying tenant, greed, reigns supreme in the world.

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GARY ANDERSON, HORTON, KANSAS — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:24:07 GMT

I WAS RAISED BY PARENTS WHO KEPT ALOT OF FAITH IN THEIR GOD & COUNTRY DURING THE 1940'S. FACED WITH ECONOMIC DEPRESSION, AND LIVING IN A SMALL FARMING COMMUNITY IN ARKANSAS, WITH NO WORK AVAILABLE EXCEPT CHOPPING THE WEEDS OUT OF COTTON FIELDS FOR 50 CENTS AN HOUR, AND THEN PICKING THAT SAME COTTON IN THE FALL FOR 3 CENTS PER POUND, BUT NEVER, NEVER GIVING UP, ESPECIALLY THOUGHTS OF TAKING THEIR KIDS TO ORPHANAGES. BUT WE HAVE READ HORROR STORIES OF PARENTS WHO DID JUST THAT, GIVE UP THEIR CHILDREN. I COULD NEVER EVEN FATHOM THOUGHTS OF THAT WITH MY KIDS, BUT I HAVE WORKED HARD, SOMETHING THESE PEOPLE CAN'T DO, TO KEEP MY CHILDREN IN SHELTER. i FEEL SO BAD FOR THEM, NOT KNOWING WHERE THEIR NEXT MEAL MAY COME FROM, YET, WITH ALL THE MONEY THE GOVERNMENT SPENDS ON WAR, SEEMS THEY COULD SET ASIDE AIDE FOR THOSE STRUGGLING TO RAISE THE CHILDREN THIS VERY STORY IS ABOUT.

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tunatofu, Washington DC — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:25:55 GMT

Someone stated the obvious not to have 8 kids - this is a problem in MANY of the Muslim nations. You have dirt poor men with 4 wives and 6 kids each wife. The men justify it with "I am rich in children!" Yeah, I bet the kids console their empty stomachs with their father's perceived wealth real well!! The problem isnt just have fewer kids, it is have only as many wives as you can realistically support too if you dont believe in allowing them to get educated and earn a living outside the home. I have even heard of American raised and educated Muslim women in the US whose parents are trying to hook them up as wife number 2 (or 3 or 4) so that she can use her education, job skills, and American citizenship to support the wives and children the foreigner already has. Surprise! No takers.

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jane doe, seattle, wa — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:26:13 GMT

Hope this helps-I googled "edhi charity"> http://www.edhifoundation.com/edhi-donations.asp

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Charles Whealton., Bear, DE — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:30:00 GMT

I can't even imagine how horrible it would feel to have to push your child away in the hopes you can at least save them from starvation, even if you might not be able to save yourself.

People starving to death in a world where there's so much (overall) wealth. I'm sorry, but that's just not right.

Thank God for the Edhi Welfare Center.

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Carrie, Saratoga NY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:30:13 GMT

I totally agree with Elizabeth in regards to the fathers beating the women. What about trying to teach themselves a trade, something useful like planing of crops? Just a thought.

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Jane Doe Seattle, WA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:30:18 GMT

L. Cook,
Putting more money into America's welfare system is not the answer. Providing jobs for lazy stay at home mothers is. We don't need to go into how many people abuse America's Social Security, Welfare and all the other assistance programs but its definitely something to think about. I can't tell you how many people who aren't even CITIZENS can get money from our Government. The people need employment opportunities, not funds just handed to them. It's really sad how many people this country allows to abuse the system.

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TMW, Columbus, OH — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:31:43 GMT

Actually, Mrs. Lessnor, things are THAT bad for some families in the U.S. This problem is not reserved for 3rd world countries. There are places and people who are in the exact predicament(or worse)right here in the Good Old US of A. I work full time, raise one child, and I know that I am less than a paycheck away.

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hmmm. — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:36:31 GMT

ppl plz read carefully, 8 kids with 3 mothers.

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Jane Doee — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:43:33 GMT

If you really mean what you say --- donate money today to help. Action speaks louder than words.

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Adil, toronto, Canada — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:44:39 GMT

So saddened by this story I can't even imagine how a mother would feel dropping their kids at an orphanage or worse selling them into slave work etc. The world is a cruel place but I sincerely believe the Edhi foundation really cuts the red tape out of charity and actually helps those in need. Whatever I can send is going to this foundation.

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Donna, Tacoma, WA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:44:39 GMT

I am saddened by the amount of posters here who are attacking these people for their situations. We here, in America, have good lives, we can afford to support our children. But that could change any day, then what? Other countries put us down for not having food?

They have little access to medical care (or birth control), food prices have gone sky high, people are losing their jobs and women feel so helpless they abondon their children. I know, lets attack them for that, that should make it all better.

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Amber, Houston, TX — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:45:52 GMT

In response to the second person's post, its 3 mothers who have 8 kids collectively not one mother with 8 kids! It is very sad that one must choose to abandon their kids because they do not have the means to provide for them. Yes it would be nice if the men worked and provided for their families but on the flipside of that, they are living in a different culture. The men MAY feel that they don't have to work and that its the woman's responsibility to totally take care of the home. For example, on an episode of Anthony Bourdain's No reservations, he was visiting a country, I can't think of the name but the men were laying around drinking and enjoying themselves while the women did back breaking labor. They said that's not our job to work, that's what they are here for. I'm not saying that is the case but that may be a possibility. It's just a thought.

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pito lito — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:46:22 GMT

Future Taliban! giving them money to support terrorist.

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Marci , NY NY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:47:45 GMT

There are pleanty of kid in the us that need help and need homes to take them in. Yes it is a shame that this goes on , however if you can't afford your kids then don't have them . They have enough money for war spend some of that money to take care of these kids. There are ENOUGH illegal people in the us that suck our tax dollars and hate our country we don't need anymore . The us should start to help it's own people before we continue to save the rest of the world

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Genie, Columbia, SC — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:48:38 GMT

It must be HOORIBLE for those women to have felt like the only option was to abandon their babies. I know for a fact I'd NEVER be able to do that but then again I am blessed enough to have alternatives if the circumstances call for it. I agree with the other readers though I know its taboo to use birth control in some cultures but enough is enough it's not fair to those poor children. Also those men need to be punished I understand maybe they got laid off and aren't out of work by choice but there is no call for beating your wife for doing what she believed was best for the children.

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Sherry, Old Forge, PA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:49:10 GMT

PPL PLS read more carefully. An extended family of 3 women with 8 kids. They could be sisters, sister-in-laws, cousins, etc. the story does not say. Pakistan is a country rich with war money but apparently not rich in food money. Perhaps if you can not take care of the majority (90%?) of your own people than you should not be out there attempting to make world policy for other people

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Joe Blow — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:51:17 GMT

Why not!! Hey, let's all adopt the poor little children from overseas just like those Hollywood retards!

Nevermind that they have 4 or 5 kids per family and no way to support them all, and are probably gonna have more. Oh hell, lets just bring all the parents too. Maybe we can get them a job or better yet allow them to live off of handouts from the goverment for 10 or 20 years.

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Adil, Toronto, Canada — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:51:31 GMT

LESS THAN 1% OF MUSLIM MEN HAVE 4 WIVES. THEY MUST BE ABLE TO SUPPORT ALL EQUALLY IN ORDER TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE SO GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE BASHING PPL FOR THEIR BAD LUCK OF BEING BORN INTO POVERTY!!

ALSO NOTE THESE COUNTRIES HAVE NO SOCIAL WELFARE / SAVINGS SAFETY NET AND HAVING MULTIPLE CHILDREN IS ACTUALLY THE ONLY WAY TO SECURE YOUR RETIREMENT (ASSUMING THEIR KIDS ACTUALLY HELP IN THEIR OLD AGE)

BEFORE POSTING HATEFUL REMARKS THINK OF HOW INSENSITIVE AND UNJUST YOU ARE

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Chris Hodges, Orange, CA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:53:32 GMT

Although this story is heartbreaking, the issue of birth control and overpopulation must become a global priortiy. This planet cannot support exponential growth, as in 4-8 kids per couple. (Try 1 or 2, then adopt if you can support more). If people are not educated to understand that they are lowering the life condition of everyone on the planet by having more children than the planet can sustain, more heartache will follow and the poorest will suffer the soonest and the most. Big problem requiring global initiative on population control to prevent suffering and the degradation of the environment as a whole.

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Kay, Piedmont,NC — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:53:41 GMT

These people don't believe in birth control. Even if they had the means to do so, they wouldn't. This earth can only feed so many people. Whether rich or poor we are all going to suffer in the future. That's why there is so much unrest everywhere. It'll only get worse

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Sunny, Gold Canyon, Arizona — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:55:32 GMT

Along with the compassionate letters of concern, I find the usual suspects who rush to condemn the mothers for having so many babies. Can't you harsh judges ever step down from your soapbox long enough to be useful to someone who is living in dire circumstanes? Try donating some of your precious cash, either to this organization, or others like it. That act alone might actually make you seem more humane!

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Janet Doe, Houston, TX — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:56:00 GMT

some of u people aren't even reading the article correctly and stating that its cuz of Muslim countries and stuff.... its 3 women who have 8 kids... and who live in a joint family system... which means a bunch of brothers and their wives and parents and kids living together... not necessarily one man married to 4 wives with 8 kids... although im sure it has happened to some... but hats off to the Edhi foundation... He is really a Godsend... May God bless him... and all these kids going thru these unfathomable situations...

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Leslie, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:56:35 GMT

It is unfair to attack these women. Women all over the world are often victims of society, even here in America. The real victims are the innocent children and my heart breaks for them. Children should grow up happy, loved and wanted, not as a burden. Most of all, they should not grow up suffering. Perhaps I am being a bit idealistic, but if I could stop the suffering of just one of these children, I would without hesitation.

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Rachel Hill — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:57:45 GMT

So. 2008. Womens' value in too many parts of the world is still defined by their adept cooking and sex skills. Female babies are a burden, because they can't do the same labor boys will be able to do. And they are not equal citizens in most parts of the world where parents have to care for their daughters until a MAN comes along to care for their daughters.

Ladies of the world - I bessech you! Can we please cease being the most unorganized movement in the history of the planet and come together to solve problems? Look where 2000 years of male leadership has gotten us. Please?

These moms knew they would be beaten and dropped their starving kids off anyway. Any mom would have done that. But would any mom stand up, wherever she is, right now, and declare that beating moms for saving their starving children is unacceptable and, damn it, someone needs to get their silver spoon out of the safe, first-world mudpie and start using it to dig women out of the demeaning, degrading despair-filled holes into which they were flung by centuries of male domination? Any mom? Will you stand up?

Tell five people about this story today and make it undeniably clear that having to choose between beatings and abandonment is unacceptable. Tell those five people that you, personally DECLARE it unacceptable.

I hope at least two of the people you tell will be your state senators. They have email - it' pretty easy.

Moms? Will you stand up?

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Roland — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:59:02 GMT

Population control is a necessity for the 21st century, yet religion largely gets in the way and often outright opposes birth control of any kind. It is time to change that, or be prepared to face a world population explosion and increased competition for ever dwindling relative resources and more and more stories like this one.

Poverty and lack of education are the hallmarks of overpopulation. There seems to be no shortage of the religious schools and their radical brand of Islam, but none of that is really education anyway.

Amazing how the Pakistani government could provide jobs in response to being embarassed by the story. Perhaps shaming the country into action is the way to go.

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Carmen F. Spokane WA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:59:16 GMT

good response Matt from NJ..should have started with your mother not having you, yah think?
as far as the children being dropped off i can certainly understand how those children felt as I too was dropped off at welfare office when I was 11 years old along with my 2 brothers because we had no money and no food. its heartwrenching to watch someone else do something like that and no not what to say or do. get out there and do something and stop pointing the finger. Don't help just because its convenient for you do it because you genuinely want to help those less fortunate then yourself!

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Lori Smith — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:00:03 GMT

This is a problem world-wide, caused by taking people out of basic subsistance farming cultures and throwing them, unprepared, into the 21st century. A family with a garden and a couple of chickens need never go hungry,as long as there is water, but when you take these villagers and cram them into apartments in cities without giving them the attendant skills, you sentence them to death. We need to rethik the cultural changes we have imposed on other lands. Some rich guy is proposing a cheap laptop for every villager - who needs a laptop when you don't even have electricity or clean running water? Start with basic skills and help them feed themselves, then wory about teaching them to make computer components and tennis shoes!

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aliya, indianapolis IN — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:00:27 GMT

This story simply breaks my heart...for most of these people "work" entails begging at a street corner. For all of you who have said they would like to adopt these children, please do! They need your help!

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jane doe, st. louis mo — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:02:30 GMT

It is a sad site to see so many people reply to birth control as if this is the answer. God is judging the world and he is not happy nor are we. Here in America we have young unwed mothers giving up there babies some putting them in trash cans, flushing them down the toilets. We are living in a world of desperation.
God told us don't kill your children for fear of poverty he will provide. I do believe this. I do feel that we are headed towards this same problem. We have to store up food/ clothing in our homes. We all can learn from this. If we do not learn the lessons of history we are doom to repeat it.

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Jen, Houston, Texas — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:05:09 GMT

To some of the people commenting: It's 8 kids total with 3 sets of parents! That works out to 3-4 kids per coupple! It's an extended family (aunts, uncles, cousins) living in the same house.

It's very sad what's happening there. The people of Pakistan are subjected to a corrupt government who use up the people's money to fund their lavish lifestyle (300 people went to Saudi Arabia on a "government trip"?). And they are forced to spend money to keep Al Qaeda out of their country and confined to Afghanistan next-door.
It kind of puts the problems here in the US in a little more perspective.

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me IL — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:07:14 GMT

It has come to my attn. that I only $80.00 to my name. I have a wife and a 2year old daughter that I have to feed and take care of ,I never know what to do. The wife can't work do to the high cost of daycare,so she stays home with the baby. Wake up people,I work 50-60 hrs a week and can't get ends to meet. I am looking for a diff. job now but i fear it's too late !!! we'll see what tomarrow brings .

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jamil anwar, brooklyn, NY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:07:40 GMT

I recently came back from pakistan and found vast unemployment.Lack of education is the root cause of most evils.people get married at very young age and no thinking is involved at how the man is going to support his family with little or no education.No work means creating more children.In early 1972 population was 55 million and now close to 170 million in about 37 years.people with money like industrialists instead of investing, keep their money in foreign countries to avoid taxes.It is an agricultural country and produces enough to feed its population with proper management.Edhi foundation is doing wonderfull job.Ordinary folks are contributers to this organisation and not the big companies another sad story.

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elaine stedman,Boynton Beach,Fl. — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:08:12 GMT

To L.Cook of 11/19 you state that America is not invading Pakistan because "they are not a threat to our masters in Israel".Careful your anti-semitism is showing. Don't you and your kind ever stop blaming Israel for everything?

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Milwaukee, WI — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:11:12 GMT

Some people have made quite ignorant comments about not having 8 kids and what not. If you read the article correctly, there were only 2-3 kids per couple. At the time these children were born, the situation in Pakistan was not nearly as bad as it is now. The prices have increased dramatically over the past year, while income has stayed the same or decreased creating an extreme imbalance. This is the reason why so many people in Pakistan are falling into poverty. This problem is also seen in the US, although not on such an extreme level.

In response to tunatofu, having multiple wives in Muslim countries is actually NOT as common as you would make it seem, and, in contrast to popular beliefs, polygamy is also practiced by many other religions, including Christianity. Only a few centuries ago was polygamy official prohibited in Christianity and Judaism, though it is still widely practiced in both religions. Also, monogamy is the preferred relationship in Islam. Polygamy is only allowed in extreme situations in order to support a widow/orphan who has no other means of survival. So please do some research and gain some knowledge before you attempt to spread the ignorance.

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Elaine Archer, Kansas City, MO. — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:11:14 GMT

What could be more hurtful than being stuck in the middle of a bad economy, not enough food, and trying to keep your children alive? Then getting a beating for it. I keep thinking this crazy stuff that men and women need to work together for each other and for the family unit. All of our children deserve so much more from us.

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Kathy G, Sayville, NY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:13:25 GMT

I just heard on the news a few nights ago, that record numbers of children were being dropped off at a similar type of institution in NEVADA (yes, the Nevada that's in the United States). Anyone ever heard that old adage "Charity begins at home". Wake up people, we're in trouble here in the U.S.

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Milwaukee, WI — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:14:35 GMT

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ns, ny ny — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:17:32 GMT

I have been reading some of the comments in this string and I am appalled at people's attitudes!

Pakistan is a different country than the US and it has different traditions and customs. What is sad is that there government is not able to provide for them; period. Our beliefs in the US differ vastly so we cannot look at them through our filter! Birth control is frowned upon, having a lot of children is the norm. Polygamy is their practice. We shouldn't scorn them for their culture, we should ask what they have been spending their money on and where the Aid Money to Pakistan in previous years has gone. We can't seem to control our own pocketbook so how do we expect a 3rd world country to do it?

As for the comment about "lazy" stay at home mothers, they are not lazy! I was lucky to be able to stay at home with my daughter for the first year of her life. What makes a mom lazy? That she is at home? What do you think they do all day? Watching your children is work, that is why we often pay others to do it for us!!!

I feel terribly for the parents who cannot support their children in Pakistan. Times are tough for everyone in the world.

I also feel the same way if not more distressed for the families who suffer a similar fate here in the US. I think it is important to donate where we can but I also believe we need to start at home first. Too many children here miss meals or eat junk food (which ironically is inexpensive as opposed to healthy foods). Too many are uneducated even though they attend school because there teachers lack the skills to work with children (for various reasons one also being they don't share the same economic background as their students) who have bigger problems than learning to read, like eating. Many families are becoming homeless due to our economic crisis and nobody is helping them.

We need to refocus our compassion and pocketbooks to fulfill our needs and secure the future for our children here in the US. If you can afford to help another country as well, then even better for you.

Wake up people, the world is getting smaller and smaller everyday, lets find a way to make it better for all.

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D.W , Ontario, Canada — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:17:44 GMT

How did this get turned into yet another male bashing post? The thread gets pulled all over the place. Oh Rachel, you can't effect change! Not if you are going to be preaching hatred of men. This IS a social economic problem true. But tapping on your keyboard from the comfort of your HOME or JOB hardly makes you seem like the female Braveheart you portray. Send a letter written in your own hand from the slums of Karachi and then maybe you can say something. Short of selling all of your worldly possessions - you are just - like - us.

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kumar,Houston TX — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:19:41 GMT

Go for family planning.

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Nellie, Atlanta, Georgia — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:20:43 GMT

My husband and I would gladly take one of these children in and raise them as our own.

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edward l. williams — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:21:30 GMT

How heartless can you get? We can debate the cause later. This is about the children. I pray that you all (with vile distain)with clildren never face a situatioon such as that. With the economy in the state that it's in, it could happen.

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Patricia Paulson — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:21:39 GMT

I agree, Matt, I have stopped contributing to any charity because all were doing is feeding the mothers and father so their strong enought to screw and make more kids. WHEN the world decides to DEMAND population controls on people who can't afford to feed their children, then, I start caring again. Everyone is screaming about "global warming" but nobody dares to speak the truth. We not longer allow nature to take its course, we cure diseases, stop famines, geez War is about the only thing we've got in the way of curbing the population growth. When governments starting doing tubal ligations on the women and vasectomies on the men when they ask for financial assistance, then I'll start chipping into help out with the children we have on the planet now. But not until.

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Pamela Fort Myers, FL — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:25:42 GMT

Its easy to criticize when an opinion is formed out of ignorance. My ex-husband is one of 10 children born into an irish catholic family. Birth control was not an option for his mom(the good catholic)and his father was your typical "thumping on the chest, he-man". During the lean years when construction workers were being laid off during the winter, my ex tells the story of too many mouths to feed and how his brothers and sisters were split up and sent to live with relatives. Its a heartwrenching story to even separate a family to live with other family members, I can't imagine the heartache of leaving ones babies with strangers, yet it seems the only option to ensure survival. Its an awful truth and think of how many children are homeless with their parents? or will be because of the economics of our current situation here in the US. If orphanages still existed in the present day, don't think for a moment that parents wouldn't be dropping off their children, giving the ultimate sacrifice to ensure their childs survival vs. starvation or homelessness due to their choices in life. I pity the mothers who have no choice and my heart breaks for the children that are being torn apart. Who are we to jump to conclusions? rather than be judgemental lets find a way to help. If you're against helping those outside of your community than help within your area..shelters need food, clothing, donations. Become a secret santa for a struggling family do something other than scoff at those less fortunate and make some ignorant excuse or blame. This story is to spark awareness and compassion, and show how the innocent continue to suffer.

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sandra, tulsa, ok — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:28:15 GMT

This story is shocking- but a similar story is occurring in Nebraska where parents are abandoning children at local hospitals. Unfortunately,the economic crisis and its impact on families is not limited to "Third World" countries.

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Asif Majeed, Mesa, Arizona — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:28:43 GMT

Pakistani did not know how good they had until they were thrown this bone of "democracy". People like Mr. Zardari and Nawaz Sharif two leaders in the present government have been tried and tested. Both failed. These leaders had bankrupted the nation, until Musharaff took charge and rescued it. He lead the biggtest economy recovery in the history of Pakistan. No one went hungry under his watch. He allowed total freedom of press and people had the right to speak as they wished even calling him a "dog". Some people complain about a lack of democracy then. There was democracy as far as people having total freedom. Yes he concentrated too much authority in himself. I think that is far better than to have corrupt rulers like we have now.

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Sunshine, California — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:30:16 GMT

Very sad indeed, but these people need to be smarter than this. Birth control people! These poor innocent kids did not ask to be brought into this world under these conditions. It's just not right. And living in southern california, this problem is quite apparent with the mexicans popping out babies left and right, while holding their hand out for welfare checks. it's sickening!

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$|-|r3|< — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:30:49 GMT

We all know that the world economy is going down. And i really want to help but this is to another country and while looking at other countries stories of suffer we forget to look at our country. America is suffering too, though not as bad as other countries. Why don't you help the starving kids in America if your an American, or starving kids from where everyou come from from your country. I know this probably sounds cruel but i don't see why we should help other countries while our country is needing help too.

That is just my 2 cent

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shan — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:33:20 GMT

I completely agree that most the leadership in the 3rd world cater only to the elite few percentiles of the population. This is again why there is so much animosity against the west amongst the average civilians in the 3rd world, since most western powers support these awful and repressive governments for the sake of self interest...just imagine how far the 300 billion spent on bombing iraq and afghanistan would have gone had it been spent on healthcare and education in those countries... so much for winning hearts and minds...

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Dilse — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:36:00 GMT

Here is the adress and numbers for the organization in the USA. Please contact them and make a donation even if it is for 5 dollars, those translate to a lot of rupees (pakistan's currency) but most importantly, they translate to kindness which is appreaciated in any language, in any part of the world.

USA Edhi international Foundation.
42-07 National street
Corona, New York, 11368 USA
Tel: (718) 639-5120
Fax:(718) 335-1978
Toll Free# 1-888-899-EDHI (3344)

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Karen, Silicon Valley, CA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:36:15 GMT

Social scientists are finding that the best way to erradicate poverty in the world is to help the women. Grameen Bank, a micro-finance organization in India gives 97% of its loans to women because they are the glue of the community.

For those of you who say birth control is the answer, remember that these women went home and were beat by their husbands. The men don't care, it's a machesmo thing for them. Studies have found that the only way out of poverty and the way to reduce the number of children born is education (not just sex ed, but ed in general). Raise the living standards of communities and the birthrate will go down.

This was a heart wrenching story.

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Jim — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:36:37 GMT

Please read the article- the avg is 2.6 kids/mother. Not a ridiculous number by any means. Additionally, the economy there must have worsened. Perhaps we shouldn't be so quick to judge, after all, in our haste we rushed into poor little Iraq looking for WMD that didn't exist. Now 2000 dead Amercians later, and coincidentally a ruined economy here in the U.S. we pick on poor little Pakistani families having a tough time. Wow. Perhaps when GM workers can no longer afford their children or homes you can tell them to take birth control, mortage control, or something else really really witty.

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Noreen, New Jersey — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:40:28 GMT

We recently adopted our son from the Edhi Center and they are a great organization. Its very easy for some to sit in luxurious nations and put down women who have no rights, no choices and very little hope. Every mother loves their child and the decision to abandon them is not the fault of them but of society that has failed them. If you are interested in adoption from Pakistan and want to find out if you qualify visit www.pakistanadoption.com.

Donations can be sent directly to USA Edhi international Foundation.
42-07 National street
Corona, New York, 11368 USA

Keep these mothers and there children in your prayers.

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Mariel Tennison — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:40:37 GMT

I am certified to teach English as a second language and have worked with young children in both <montessori and private kindergarten settings - also, I was orphaned, which gives me a particular insight into the hearts of these orphans - could <i be of help in Karachi?

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LC, Oklahoma — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:41:51 GMT

I think Jane Doe from Seattle needs to re-read her statement. Referring to all stay at home mothers as lazy is not only an ignorant statement but is also offensive. Don't generalize people like that.

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Rhonda, White Plains, NY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:42:37 GMT

If I'm not mistaken, US policy for foreign aid for the past decade has been that any organization that receives US aid is absolutely forbidden to discuss birth control, provide birth control, or any kind of family planning whatsoever. That should be President Elect Obama's first directive to remove the so-called gag order. Women taking charge of their own reproductive abilities has got to be the first step toward economic improvement.

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Alexandria, Phoenix, Az — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:44:47 GMT

Karen...actually things are pretty bad here in the US as well...I work in the field of Child Welfare and am a community Organizer for my department...many children come into our care because of the lack of food in the home...throngs of children eat only at school because there is no food at home and the parents have to make difficult choices-pay rent or put food on table...situation here, although not as bad as in Pakistan, is still pretty grim...we have parents giving up their children here as well...most of the time the reason is the same as in the story-not enough money to feed the kids...If you lived in Arizona I would definitely give you some ideas on how you can help...many kids in our communities need the help of caring adults who live in their community...every child deserves a loving home...kids do not belong in group homes and shelters...no parent should ever have to give up their child because they cannot provide food for them...we as human beings need to band together and somehow make things work in these difficult times...we shouldn’t wait for the holidays or for a disaster such as Katrina or 9/11 to strike before we band together to help one another...children and their families need help year round and not just around Christmas...Take care everyone

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Louise Ritchie, Tallahassee, FL — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:46:23 GMT

"Pakistan's extremely high rate of population growth is caused by a falling death rate combined with a continuing high birth rate. In 1950 the mortality rate was twenty-seven per 1,000 population; by 1990 the rate had dropped to twelve (estimated) per 1,000. Yet throughout this period, the birth rate was fortyfour per 1,000 population. On average, in 1990 each family had 6.2 children, and only 11 percent of couples were regularly practicing contraception....

The key to controlling population growth, according to activists in the women's movement, lies in raising the socioeconomic status of women. Until a woman's status is determined by something other than her reproductive capabilities, and especially by the number of sons she bears, severe impediments to lowering population growth rates will persist."
http://countrystudies.us/pakistan/29.htm

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Bobbi Dutra, Nashua, NH — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:47:06 GMT

Abuse is abuse... child wealth fare is not the answer. Education is.. Birth control is... common sense is... Responsible government involvment is.. Women of the world unite.. this issue belongs to all of us.. not just 3rd world countries.. United Nations take this ISSUE and RESOLVE IT... STOP SITTING BY THE WAYSIDE accumualating unpaid parking tickets.. DO SOMETHING FOR HUMANITY...

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chris, alabama — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:51:26 GMT

For all of you blaming this on capitalist greed lets ask the people of the USSR, North Korea, or China how the socialist economies you advocate have been so lovely to them. I'm sure the memory of oppresion and tyranny will bring a smile to their faces. Freedom brings innovation and charity. Capitalism ensures freedom.

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SFinSF, CA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:53:55 GMT

EXACTLY the same thing is going on RIGHT NOW in Nebraska. Maybe we need to fix our own problems first? Take a look at this video about parents abandoning children in Nebraska that's posted on CNN today http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/2008/11/19/callebs.nebraska.safe.haven.cnn

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Glen Scutt, Newark, New Jersey — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:55:58 GMT

The bad news is that there are hungry kids here in Newark, NJ. It should get much worse. No need to send money to Pakistan to get warm fuzzy feelings folks. Of course there is always an alternative. Children are edible.

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F. Sltn, Troy, Michigan — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:59:06 GMT

Rachel and others:

Lets not mix up the stories here. This is about KIDS and not women and not about Muslims or Asian, etc. I dont know how I will react too if I have to give my children away. Pakistan is a country that has been victimized by the COLD war and having repeatedly corrupt leaders. Pakistan was not given a choice to be an America Ally during the Cold War or the War on Terror. They had to comply... They had to spend the money on the Army to fight the war on Terror. Having corrupt leaders does not help either. But at the end of the day, the problem remains the same, poor people are suffering and it is people like Edhi Foundation who, without being prejudice, spent everything towards the welfare of these people. I will do everything that I can to help people like this through Edhi Foundation. Maybe this will bring me closer to God. May God help his suffering creation all over the world and give our leaders the wisdom to spread peace in this world. Amen.

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Alexandria, Phoenix, Az — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:59:52 GMT

jane Doe,

I can emphatically tell you that non documented individuals are not entitled to any support...well, they're entitled to have temporary insurance during child birth...that is about it...not a whole lot...for every time you mention illegal individuals and how much they're taking from us, I will show you about 30 citizens of this country (of various colors, creeds and ethnicities) who do not want to get out of their house and get a job...they complain loudly but will not do anything unless it is the 1st or the 15th of the month when it's time to renew your benefits at the local welfare office...that is about the only thing that they get out and do...they will scream loud but will not do anything about it...have a great day

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Blues — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:02:05 GMT

I agree with what was said earlier by Mike and others: the women are beaten because they tried to find a solution for keeping their children from going hungry, and the men are given jobs? What?! I'm sure the women hid some of the money (any smart wife would- my mother has always had bits of cash hidden all over the house, and often times that money got us through tight times), but that won't keep all of it out of the men's hands, and it will be spent away in a week. I think the men should be taken outside and beaten before sending them off to their new jobs. This all came about because of sympathy for the women and children, but the men deserve some sort of punishment.

And I agree, birth control would help these women control their situation tremendulously. Funny how our Pres. Bush and his cronies don't understand situations like these and want to push abstinence all over the world. Do they really think men who beat their wives understand, "Sorry, honey. We don't have enough money to feed our kids, we can't risk another baby!"? The conservatives LOOOOVE having babies, hate birth control and pander on about the sancity of life, but they don't want to feed those babies or preserve life outside the womb! "Sorry kid, yur on yur own!" If they really cared about the "sancity of life" they'd help medical professionals provide access to birth control so parents can take excellent care of the children they have and not have to worry about another unexpected mouth to feed.

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Mike — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:03:38 GMT

Don't say that "it isn't that bad here in the states." *You* may not be feeling the pinch, but what about people who are less fortunate than you? People who don't have the money for the things they need.

And if you want to adopt kids, look for the kids whose unashamed parents have been dropping them off in Nebraska from all over the country. Sure, Pakistan needs money, too, but they aren't any worse off than the people in Darfur. My point is that such things ARE happening here in the states; it's just easier to listen to in the media when it isn't so close to home.

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jane doe — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:06:51 GMT

for the person below: 8 children between 3 mothers.. duh.
I am so thankful that both my husband and I have jobs. More than I can say for a few of my friends that are now layed off

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Tray Doe, Hyde Park, NY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:11:55 GMT

Lazy stay at home moms? Really? Well Jane Doe from Seattle, I challenge you to stay at home with my two boys, one with special needs and then we'll talk. Anyone who says that caring enough to raise your own children instead of copping out and paying someone else to do it is stupid and insensitve. I work around the clock everyday of the week. No days of, no sleep at night, if working 24 hours is lazy, then what are you?

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CLS; Colo Sprgs, CO — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:13:29 GMT

All you people complicate the reality of this story with post adolesent idealistic statements or just plain cruelity. Follow the "Golden Rule" or just leave it alone...there is no solution to world hunger..if there was, it would have been solved centuries ago...

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DayStar, Tenn. — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:15:13 GMT

It is very sad.It is the little children who always suffer.But this is nothing new.This happened back in the 1930's and 1940's in the Depression Era here in America.My mother and her sister and little 2 year old brother were abandoned then.They were sent to a work farm to work at 7 years old, then later to an orphanage to live.Yes, this is sad for children anytime, anywhere.This is not the 30's or 40's but we still have children in this country who need help.We still have orphanages here.I read the other comments of people wanting to help children.There are plenty here that need help. You don't have to go to another country to find homeless children. We need to look around our own towns.Charity does begin at home. God help the children every where .

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Race — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:17:11 GMT

Read between the lines once again, my fellow delicate petals...
The local government gave the fathers of these children jobs, with enough wages to feed the children.
This means that this local government had the RESOURCES to pay for those wages in the first place, which leads to the question...why did these men not able to get those government jobs in the first place?
Answer: those men aren't "connected". Those jobs were reserved for friends and family of local government ONLY.
In Pakistan, as in the rest of the world, its not about poverty.
Its about greed.

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SansJRS, Redlands, CA — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:20:16 GMT

What is that old saying? "But for the grace of God, there go I." That is how I feel about this story. Yes, I wish I could help, but I have family members in the same situation that I help, unfortunately, I don't have any extra....but as soon as I do, I will.

Keep up the good work Edhi Foundation - may the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation or Oprah's many foundations, and the likes of them, read this story and enrich your purses.

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Mom Of Many — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:32:38 GMT

Over population? You guys need to do some research. Over population is a myth! Watch the Demographic Winter documentary. Many countries are paying women to have babies because of their popluation decline. Don't assume that what you hear in the media is truth. Look at the facts for your self. Do some research on popluation in Europe and Russia. Putin has acknowledged that the very low birth rate is one of the biggest issues facing Russia. This tragedy in Pakistan has nothing to do with over population.

As an adoptive mom of both children from over seas and the US, I cannot understand the lack of compassion by a few of you in regards to children and adoption. I suppose most of you feel that my children would have been better off aborted rather than allowed to live. It's no wonder things aren't looking too good for us in the west any more.

"Children are our most valuable natural resource" Herbert Hoover

"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate." Psalm 127:3-5

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WILSON JEANCY — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:57:49 GMT

I,as a minority am emphasized the pain inflicted by these parents who are unable to feed and to provide for their families.This is what happend when we live in an unstabled world.people do not take times to think about the others and measure issues that are best for humankind.It is app about greeds and power.This is really sad.

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Santosh Asuthkar, Toronto, Canada — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:58:08 GMT

I am deeply touched with the kids emotions. How to help them...
Santosh Asuthkar

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Zak Faruqi — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 21:58:46 GMT

Please check out Edhi Foundation at
http://www.edhifoundation.com/

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Food Bank donor — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 23:34:14 GMT

Please donate money this Christmas to your local food bank, and help keep this unfortunate outcome from an economic downturn from happening in your own communities! Food banks can't keep up with demand. Do like the Edhi Foundation, act local and think global

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Sami — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 23:35:47 GMT

Before you jump on those poor women, remember the that recently people were doing the same in Nebraska, where one man dropped 11 children at a Hospital, including teenagers. So before we criticise these poor mothers about not using birth control, remember young kids who were being abandoned and sometimes killed, right here in the US, not because of poverty, but of fear of taking responsibility. This is a global issue, and it is shameful, we spend, in the US alone, 500 billion dollars on the Pentagon, Defence Budget, while we have 50 million Americans, including my own kids, who do not have health insurance. Let us all unite in this global struggle for RANTIONAL spending and management of our resources. Let us help human everywhere,let us lift the weak and poor, especially the old and the young. Let us heplp our women, the mothers of tomorrow leaders, let us do it now.

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Bushra, Ca — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 23:43:56 GMT

Hi,
If any one wishes to adopt children from Pakistan, you can visit the following site for more information:

http://pakistanadoption.com/

In most cases, its not the womens fault she is burdened with so many kids. If she says no to sex, the men will leave her or beat her in most cases and if they man leaves her, her family might not accept her back. Education is lacking for these women about birth control. The problem with society is rather than thinking about ways to come up with long term solution, majority of the people are too busy playing the blame game.
Call Edhi or visit Pakistan, look at the situation first hand and then try to come up with a solution. What information we get secondhand is not always enough to make a sound judgment.

http://www.edhifoundation.com/edhi-foundation-biography.asp

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fm, westerly, ri — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 11:47:48 GMT

this has been happening in this QUALITY, ISLAMIC AND PEACEFULL NATION since before british occupation.

LIKE ALL WEALTHY PEOPLE they CRY ABOUT PAYING TAXES, give the poor nothing and travel the world, while sending their kids to the best schools-while they watch their neighbors kids starve.

allah laughs while chist cries.

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Dan, Afgh. — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 11:53:12 GMT

I hope they teach them English. As a worker in Afghanistan, I see daily the obstacles inherent to this part of the world and their culture. It's a reality that is played over and over in so many countries. I would be willing to adopt any of these children, just to give them a chance.

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Lee, Cincinnati, OH — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 12:17:30 GMT

News to those who has never been to a third world country. Please do not measure others circumstance with ours. Life is very tough for them in this economy, there are no pay jobs at all in many areas, no welfare programs or heath care. In some place in Afica people are eating dirt to survive. It is very sad to read so many hateful and ignorant messages on this page, it seems like some people use this story as their emotional dumping ground. Have a heart, be compasionate, what come around, goes around. A kind word or two a day to others is good for your emotional health.

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Dan, Orlando FL — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 13:08:06 GMT

I'm over in Pakistan right now. There isn't any jobs for these people. It's the Pakistani leadership that is to blame. Leadership drives around this town in high priced cars and life in huge mansions. I see it everyday!! Its a damn shame!! We don't need to pour money into this country for food. The leaders need to be held accountable. So much poverty here!!!

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Marsha, Detroit — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 13:31:54 GMT

A lot of the negative comments I read were from people who have never been to Pakistan, or know of the people. I am a born American polish descent and I visited a friend in Pakistan. The people there are like us -- the current economic situation is GLOBAL and caught Pakistanis just like us only worse. Because their government is not doing anything to help them. The Pakistani's are proud people like us, and their men want to work. Oh yes, there are the deadbeats like here. But when there are no jobs and layoffs are worse than in the US - what are they to do? The men won't take the money, the reason the women were beat were the men were humiliated because of not supporting their families. Can't you people understand other cultures? Or even attempt some humanity or compassion?

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Onkar Joshi — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 13:41:02 GMT

Yes, spend $600 billion to bail American companies out that have made obviously bad business decisions, but Edhi gives a $1200 bailout package, and suddenly the free market capitalist awakens?

How can America lay claim to any idea of social welfare when its government does not deem the right to food a universal human right? Indeed, America was the ONLY country to oppose the 'Right To Food' at the World Food Summit in 2002 at Rome.

http://www.righttofood.org/new/PDF/CHR2008.pdf
"On the other hand, the Bretton Woods institutions, along with the Government of the United States of America and the World Trade Organization, refuse to
recognize the mere existence of a human right to food and impose on the most vulnerable States
the “Washington Consensus” emphasizing liberalization, deregulation, privatization and the
compression of State domestic budgets, a model which in many cases produces greater
inequalities."

Crying shame, this.

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cheryl anderson — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 15:51:52 GMT

does pakistan offer int'l adoption, like the prev writer, I could adopt one kid.

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Hashen — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 15:52:38 GMT

How about if we start an organization that provides sex education to the third world countries. I was born and raised in India, lived there for 27 year and was a high school teacher in a village for about 5 years. It broke my heart when my bright high schools girls dropped out because they got pregnant. Education is the KEY. Anyone interested on this project lets talk seriously and email me mycutepup@yahoo.com