A beautiful South African gift
Posted: Thursday, December 11, 2008 7:40 AM
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By Martin Fletcher, NBC News Correspondent
UITENHAGE, South Africa – In South Africa’s Xhosa language, "Esihle" means "A Beautiful Gift." And indeed little Esihle, a three-year-old girl small for her age, would be a beautiful gift for anybody.
Her eyes are wide and she smiles quickly. She is kind: as I look on, she puts an arm around her friend and pats her gently on the head, then laughs silently. When she looks up at you, you have to take her in your arms.
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| Paul Goldman / NBC News |
| NBC News' Martin Fletcher visits with his new friend Esihle. |
But Esihle lives in a children’s home because her parents can’t cope. They’re healthy enough, but they live under a bridge in Uitenhage in South Africa’s Eastern Cape Province. Healthy enough for poor people here means it has not been confirmed that they are HIV positive. But in a country where one out of every five is HIV positive, social workers say that the odds are high that at least one of her parents is infected.
A social worker found Esihle in July, dirty, hungry and crying, and brought her here, to this home where my producer, Paul Goldman, and I have been filming an altogether different story.
I hold Esihle with one arm and with the other I point the video camera at her, and flip round the viewfinder, so she can see herself on the little screen. She’s only 3 years old, so at first she looks wide-eyed at herself, then she looks at me in wonder, looks again at herself and laughs out loud. She rolls her eyes. Sticks out her tongue. Waggles it around.
Hey Esihle, I say, mangling the pronunciation, what do you think? She looks at me silently, smiling, and looks again in the viewfinder. I jiggle her up and down and say again, you like? She doesn’t respond, just laughs, and points to the screen so that her friends can see her too.
A social worker comes over and says, "She can’t hear you – she’s deaf. And she can’t speak – she’s mute." I feel as if I’ve just been punched in the stomach.
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| Paul Goldman |
| Esihle gets a hug from NBC's Martin Fletcher. |
I look down at Esihle and she looks up and our eyes meet. I smile and she smiles. She puts her head against my shoulder and with one tiny hand, touches my cheek. I feel my eyes warm and begin to sting. The social worker says, "Her brother is here too. He’s epileptic. The parents can’t cope."
There are 42 children in this home, aged 3 months to 18 years old. Many are orphans and some are HIV positive. They are cared for by half a dozen women who busy themselves all day, cleaning, feeding, playing, teaching, singing, giving love and affection. The home is on the edge of a dirt-poor township where it’s normal to be HIV positive, unemployed and live in a shack made of corrugated iron and cardboard and covered in plastic.
So in this safe, warm place little Esihle can count herself lucky, in a way. Certainly you would think, from her smile, that she is the happiest little girl. And to meet her is to receive a beautiful gift, although a sad one too.