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One Room in Zambia

Posted: Friday, October 19, 2007 11:53 PM
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Sometimes the story is out in the street. Sometimes, it is on a battlefield. Sometimes, it is in the room, sitting next to you. 

After a four-hour drive south from Zambia’s sprawling city of Lusaka, I’m sitting in a small, whitewashed office with 11 people. Clement Chipollilo, an aid worker, is telling us about a Zambian village we will visit. HIV/AIDS, unemployment, and drought have ravaged the village. In recent years, most of the region’s cattle have died of pneumonia. Drought has trashed its agricultural base. It is the next thing he says, however, that makes us all sit up and listen.

He tells about what happens when parents die, usually from AIDS, and leave their children behind. “In the city,” he says, “children often raise themselves. A 7-year-old child becomes the head of the household. You’ll see them along the street. If the children are orphaned in a village, however, a relative usually tries to take them in, but sometimes they cannot afford to.” 

John Larson / NBC News
A young orphan girl in Zambia.

I ask him how often this happens, parents dying, leaving their children with nothing and no one. “A lot,” he says. “In fact, all four of us in the room are raising children who are not our own.”

There are four Zambian men in the room. They look up and nod. Between them, they are raising 23 children who are not their own. I ask them about their kids. Clement has one child of his own, but he is raising five more. When Clement’s cousin and his cousin’s wife died of AIDS, Clement took the kids. Bernard Zulu, another Zambian aid worker in the room, has four of his own children and is responsible seven more – including some of his own siblings. Same goes for Victor Simuchimba, whose brother and sister both died of AIDS. He raised three children in addition to his own. Goffrey Mankhungwe Kamanga has two boys, but is raising or helping raise four more. Goffrey’s sister is sick with an AIDS-related illness. That means that soon he may have more.

When I tell them how stunned I am by their stories, they laugh. “You should have met Aladon,” Goffrey says. “He is a fifth employee in our office and he has raised about 12 children that are not his own.”

All the men are bright, educated and passionate about Zambia’s poorest people. The stories they tell are both hopeful and desperate. On one hand, they are building a beautiful school. On the other, unemployment in the region is almost 100 percent. Huge advances in free antiviral medication for HIV/AIDS provide hope. Yet, the average life expectancy here is just a stunning 38 years – down from 46 years just a few years ago. The HIV pandemic is crushing Zambia’s adult population. More than half of the nation’s 11 million people are suddenly under 15 years old. Their parents – dead or dying.

One of the men in the room mentions malaria. I later learn that all four Zambians in the room have malaria. “If you are Zambian, you’ve had malaria,” says Goffrey. But that is another story, for another room.

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How honorable these men are, and to think in the country we can't even get all fathers to pay child support let alone take in extra kids.
This is a sad situation for these people. It amazes me how these men can sit there, and talk matter of factly about the situation their country is in. (at least it seems this way to me.) For the people of this country and others like it, AIDS is a way of life like people in this country going to the mall.
I am hoping that these men are educating their children and the children they are raising about AIDS and the preventive measures they must take to survive.
Wow----that is shocking and appalling!
Wow, the work these men are doing is remarkable. Beautiful. I am sure God is blessing them & will provide a lot more for them.
That is an incredible story and one that really touches the heart.  My only hope is that the world continues to donate towards education to will lay a knowledge base to prevent further infections and the variety of jobs available to a stumbling economy.  It seems that as the scrouge of AIDS proceeds through Africa it has reached a critical mass of infected people and the only hope may only be through slowing it down and future prevention.
I am always saddened when I hear of tragic stories like this about children orphaned, diseased, with no body to take care of them, no food, no shelter.  A child forced to be an adult in a world they do not yet understand.  It's unfair.  The western part of the world hears these stories and we all go about our lives the next day.  How fortunate we are and our children to not endure or truly understand their circumstances.  How much longer must they suffer.
John,
   This problem is one if not the largest problem in Sub-Sahara Africa. Having spent a fair amount of time in Kenya, the same stories can be heard there. My hope and prayer is that more become aware and begin to take action in coming along side of these children and help.
With all the research and all the money spent trying to find cures for HIV and cancer, why has so little been accomplished?  Why can't the rest of the world act like these gentlemen? Forget about the profits for once,think about the humanity.  What good will profits and power do when no one is left to work for you and there is no one for you to rule, no one to make the goods that  you can buy?
with all the people in the world looking for children they can't have maybe if the word was out of this need they could help. can someone tell the worl of this need. would the children be adoptible, i mean available.
It is sad that with all the world's riches that there can be a place that this is a way of life for so many.
This is occuring in the world, yet we also have "morons" leading countries, making threats of missle strikes, when they could be assisting this country. But of course, I forgot, they are only out for themselves. These are children, and no one cares. Well, time to wake up world--these children will become adults, and will know who helped them, and who did not. These future leaders will remember.
Can anyone tell me about the Terranova School in Mazabuka?  I received a letter from a boy there after sending a package through Operation Christmas Child.  Is it an orphanage?  What is the best way to get mail to him?  I have sent a letter but do not even know if he can send one back.
It seems that this is the way it USED to be in the "olden days", I'm 47 years old and I was raised with good old fashioned family values. When my father died at 33 (I was 11, sister 9 and sister 13) I was NEVER afraid of not being taken care of. My aunts, uncles and grandparents were all right there for us. There was no question that, had my mother not been able to cope or something should happen to her, they would always be there to take us in. When my sisters were having problems, I always knew that it would be up to me and the rest of the family to take their children should they no longer be able to care for  them. Along that line, I was never given the impression that the state or federal government was responsible for the quality of my life. Family and yourself, that's what you depended on. The break down of family values has alot to do with the break down of this country, the loss of moral values and personal integrity. I'm not surprised that the reporter for this article was so in awe of the dedication of these men to their families, it's a shame but, I would bet that the greater majority of Americans are in awe. I'm glad to say that, although I commend these men, I am not in awe. We'd all be better off thinking the way they do.  
Hello,
Extraordinary.Is there a mechanism to send clothing food and bikes for these kids?
I have heard that Commercial Airliners will take donated items at no charge to these Countries.
Thanks.
To the person asking about the Terranova School in Mozabuku. You can go to the Starbucks website and they sell Zambian Black Label coffee grown at the estate. Part of the proceeds fund the school and gives the parents jobs. You can also find info at the US embassy website about the library project.
So sad.  When I lived in Zambia 45 yrs ago.  Independence was the promise of a bright future for the country.  I feel for the peoples of the Southern Province.
Julie ... I don't understand how after reading a story like this, all you can focus on is the "breakdown of family values" (in america).  The story is not about america or about your personal experience being cared for by extended family.   It's about the devastation of HIV/AIDS in Africa.  It's about villages with story after story of kids being cared for by grandparents, uncles, aunts ... of kids being cared for by kids ...  Pick up the book 28: Stories of AIDS in Africa ... and see if somewhere deep inside of you a little bit of "awe" can be stirred.  
So sad. When I use the age old saying that things could be worse, This is a classic example.  These children and adults could be you or I or worse our children.
So sad. When I use the age old saying that things could be worse, This is a classic example.  These children and adults could be you or I or worse our children.
These men know what compassion and love mean.  Many people of the world do not.  Only in a country where there is a real sense of community can this happen.  I doubt that even 1 in 100,000 people in the most privileged country in the world would behave like these men.  They are an excellent example of how to be.  Peace to them
Mike Patenaude, Julie Laughlin probably means that we need to re-think the shape of moral values are in today's world. This situation in Zambia has brought the best of family values that these people have, which is extraordinary. It sets an example that the world of today needs to see and learn to improve family and moral values. I am also in amazed by the gigantic effort of these Zambian men, but I understand Julie, in that it should not be something that was once standard and now is something of a bygone era and now when we look at it today, we think it is not possible. Those family and moral values should be the standard of today and of tomorrow as it was then. Maybe that will better our world.
God bless those men and their families.
This is a story that I beleive should to share with the everyone.  This is a story about real men, doing what is needed to be done.  I work with young men who are sending time behind jail wall, and I think if they have a chance to be around men likeClemen Chipollilo  many of them would how a better outlook on life.  Thank you for this story.
Hey, NAMIBIA and ZAMBIA are two different countries. Guess it's printers's devil. Link from MSNBC main page says Namibia. The stoy's title says ZAMBIA .
I know, not because Angelina Jolie and Brad Pit had their daughter there, but because I lived there for 6 years. Interesting, isn't it?
I was in Zambia in 2000 for 2 months.  I was with a team and we taught in an elementary school near Victoria Falls.  I worked with the 3rd graders.  These kids were awesome, yet they have no future.  One of my favorite students was 9 years old - in week 2 of our trip, his mother died of AIDS, in week 5, his father died of AIDS.  It was heartbreaking.  I learned from the school's principal that he would now be moving to the Lusaka area to live with a family that does exactly what this article speaks of.  Those men are a true God send!  
Zambia is full of very good hearted people. After 3 weeks that i spent there i reflected on my visit and thought to myself, wow not once did i hear a curse word, not once did someone try to rip me off. I never witnessed a fight or any sort of public display of negativity. They are a people who pride themselves about the fact that there has never been any violence in their country unlike the nighbor Zimbabwe. One of few places in this world where people do care about strangers, and this is Africa? WOW!
What a message these men send to the rest of the world.  My prayers are with them.
These men are angels. We not going to see angels in white gowns flying in the sky. They came this way and need to be praised and get help in any way. God is blessing them because he is the one who sent them the same way he did Jesus but its hard for all people to understand. Job well done.
How can we find a name and address of such families in Zambia tomatch up with individual persons to perhaps help.  I would imagine that a monthly stipend of $25.00 or $30.00 would help hese folks a great deal. Personal one on one help. Enough retoric already. Does anyone know how to do this and make sure the person actually receives the money??
Katherine in Naples - I'd do it today!!!
Do the people of Zambia not understand what causes AIDS/HIV or do they not care?
when articles like this are posted, it would be helpful to include links to charitable or other organizations that are trying to aid in the solution to these problems.  We do contribute towards a child in Africa (not Zambia) each month and how wonderful if you or your children could each do the same.  Since there are no links, do a search for child sponsorship Africa, or for AIDs support Africa, etc, I'm sure plenty of needful hits will come up.
The link on the front page says "One Room in Namibia" but the story is about Zambia. Are all African countries the same to who ever is responsible for the link? Seriously, this is supposed to be a news website. If it was about a town in France you wouldn't say Germany would you? Fact check people.
these stories are hard to belief but they are true. i am an african studing in the US. these are realities that the world should pay attention a lot and sooner.
wow thats horrible, i wish there were more men like those in the world, there would be so many less problems
Thank, oh thank you for this article. Africa is such a paradox of absolute beauty and abominable suffering. What a blessing to meet such a courageous and loving group as you have here.
please check your website headlines..Namibia is not Zambia  :)  Great story!!
I would like to help these kids.  Buying coffee at Starbucks is a start, but I'd like to do more.  What Non-Governmental Organizations (NGOs) are working there, now?  Which ones can we trust?
thats the way it should be when i grew up i came from a family that consisted of 4 aunts and 1 uncle together with their respective children all in the same neighborhood the extended family on my grandmothers side consited of 5 more familys each with their chidren all living in the same city when we got together from time to time at summer outings and christmas parties with the saugage and peppers and eggplant parmigian, the homemade wine and the mandolins let me tell that was living.we did'nt have money but we lived a good life.
Dear People, Do we have to have this happen in our country, before we listen.So much to bear for these poor people.Our country needs to help out on this one,how can we just stand,and do nothing.My heart and prayers go out to them, and I am calling my congress man, or anyone, who will listen to me, maybe,it will help.....
This is the story of one village, in one country in Africa. Every village in Africa has stories like this. We should not be surprised when we read a story like this. We should be surprised that it has taken this long to come out.

I was born and grew up in Africa. I have seen the pain and deprivation of these children and their parents and families. Their lives are desolate, without hope. They don't live expecting an education, or food, or adoption. They just hope to survive each day that comes by.

We can either look away and go on with our lives, or we can help where we can. There are many opportunities for each one of us to help. The big aid organizations are not the way to do it though. There are small organizations that work deep in Africa that make the difference. If you want to check out our own work at the Arlington Academy of Hope, you can visit our website at www.arlingtonacademyofhope.org. You can either work with us or find a similar organization in the country you choose. But please, don't sit back until the next story from Africa comes across your computer. The need is now. Thank you.
"What good will profits and power do when no one is left to work for you and there is no one for you to rule, no one to make the goods that  you can buy?"

To Sandra:  I believe profits and power is exactly why this country is in this state.  When there is no big industry to provide jobs, this is what happens.  The employment is almost 100% according to the article, so what exactly are these people working to provide in the first place?
If more people had a bit more of compassion as these men have for the needy, ill, forgotten, abused, etc., the world would be a better place. Unfortunately, our material world is taking us to the point of no return.
As for Julie: What's the point of your diatribe? How does the breakdown of family values come to be part of this sad story?
Oh, how silly of me. You live in the same state where that "family values guy" lives. That will explain it.
Spending money on AIDS vaccines and AIDS meds feels good but is not very cost effective.  Put some of that money into an effort to supply free condoms to Africa and other poor countries.  That would both attack AIDS and would reduce the number of parentless children.  The present official US position on birth control is heartless, cruel, and ineffective.
Mr. Larson, if you're ever back in that office with those men, I would hope that you would pass along to them that they have earned the respect of people 10,000 miles away that they will never meet, just by doing the right thing.  They have stepped up to the plate and done what's right, and to see that not just by one or two individuals, but by many, is truly inspiring.  I agree that we've lost this to a great degree here in the more 'civilized' United States, but despite the disease and poverty, in some ways these men are more civilized than we are.  Family is what truly matters, and most of us Americans, in our drive for material and financial success, tend to forget this.  These men at least have their priorities straight, and it's good reminder for us all.
condoms,condoms,condoms,condoms,and more condoms!
Thanks for this report. It is so accurate. I come from Southern Africa and Zambia and its neighboring countries are suffering from the same crisis. You are so right, kids are raising kids in southern Africa because most of them lost their parents to AIDS. If they don't raise each other, their elderly grandparents have to take them in, or kind relatives like those four guys.

I salute those men. They portray the true heart of Africa, which says it takes a village to raise a child. But with the pandemic so widespread, it is so difficult for the kind-hearted to help everyone. One gets overwhelmed no matter how much he or she may want to help. Imagine it like this: These 4 men are educated and smart, so they can afford to help a few more kids besides their own. But the saddest part is that the majority of the people are not as fortunate as these 4 men. They can hardly raise their own kids, let alone someone else's. My heart bleeds for Africa.
This events occur in the world to try and test the rest of us.  The day will come when many of us will be told that HE was hungry and we never fed HIM; thirsty and we never gave HIM anything to drink; naked and we never clothed HIM; sick and we never visited HIM.  It will be a sad, sad day for many of us.  God have mercy.
Sad, indeed.  And to think that what our president has to offer is not condoms, but the choice of abstinence.
Does anyone know how I can get funds directly to these people? even one particular family? Is it a clinic he found them in? It must have a number there with contacts to doctors or nurses. If I had that info I would take it from there. Thank you.
and it is immoral to get the people to use condoms to stop the spread of aids.
These children are of no use to anyone. There are too many mouths to feed already. God has his plans. We should let God's plans play out, and help America first.


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